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AmmiAmmiel

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Not only am I single when it comes to relationships (for a good reason), I'm single as it pertains to friendships. All the people I wish I could call my true friends just seem to be fake losers who have no real interest in being my friend. Friendship is special to me and actually means a lot, so when people call themselves my friends but don't show the care for the uniqueness of true friendship, it makes me rather have no "friends" at all. So maybe it's time I let them know how I really feel?
 
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zaoman32

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This may be harsh, but this isn't about you and what you think. You don't feel like your friends are real friends? You calling them fake losers and accusing them of having no interest in being your friends. How is that being a good friend? You claim friendship is special and yet, in one sentence you've managed to completely insult and degrade your friends. Look in the mirror before acusing others
 
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AmmiAmmiel

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I don't think you understand my situation,.. I show all the care in the world for these people and they never take the time to even ask me how I'm doing.
 
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keep_on_smiling

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We are to love everyone as Jesus loves us. Show those that call themselves your friends love. This doesn't mean let them take advantage of you nor does it mean you need to be around them all the time. It just means be kind, it's unnecessary and in my opinion childish to actually tell someone that they aren't your friend.

In saying that, if this friendship could be repaired in your mind, it would be important to talk openly with them about your feelings. Otherwise let it be, you choose who you surround yourself with :)
 
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zaoman32

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AmmiAmmiel said:
I don't think you understand my situation,.. I show all the care in the world for these people and they never take the time to even ask me how I'm doing.
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I think I know and understand your situation a little better than you think. And I can tell you with full honesty the problem is not them it's you. Your perception of something is not fact or truth, it is simply your perception. Burn your bridges now and you will regret it. Work on yourself being a better friend, and worry less about what it is they're doing to offend you.
 
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