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Heny

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Hello, pls place your comment. Is it really advisable to start looking for your wife to be , even when you are not ready to marry???
 
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adekruif

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Would you want to have a girlfriend who wasn't ready to be married? Answer that question and you have your answer. :)
 
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CatWoman

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I would have to say yes because you should get to know someone before you are married. That takes a lot of time. By the 6th month of knowing someone their true selfs will come out. So after 6 months forget about how nice the person was when you first met them. Every one will be nice to you when you first meet them. We tend to put on our best at first. Look at how the person is after this time period. What you see is what your gonna get at this point. Are they mean, are they nice? Do they have unconditional love for you and other people? Do they love the Lord? Forget about how wonderful that person made you feel when you first met them. How do they make you feel now?
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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adekruif said:
Would you want to have a girlfriend who wasn't ready to be married? Answer that question and you have your answer. :)
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I'd stick with this answer.
 
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Liz01

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CatWoman said:
I would have to say yes because you should get to know someone before you are married. That takes a lot of time. By the 6th month of knowing someone their true selfs will come out. So after 6 months forget about how nice the person was when you first met them. Every one will be nice to you when you first meet them. We tend to put on our best at first. Look at how the person is after this time period. What you see is what your gonna get at this point. Are they mean, are they nice? Do they have unconditional love for you and other people? Do they love the Lord? Forget about how wonderful that person made you feel when you first met them. How do they make you feel now?
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And this is one reason of why i dont date and want to know someone as a friend first.......
 
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mad4christ

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If u want a blessing, like that you have to start preparing yourself for who God has in store.so u got to be ready
 
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Heny

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Thanks to you all, i think i know what to do...
 
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Jullianna

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If you aren't ready, it's probably not a good idea to begin looking for a wife, but there is certainly nothing wrong with paying attention to ladies and discovering what you do/don't want in a relationship, learning how to interact and communicate with them, exploring things you may need to work on in your own life, etc. to better prepare yourself for when the time comes. All of these things result in maturity, which is key when you ARE ready for a relationship. :)
 
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pooh_bear21

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I think it would be good to become friends first with people. But I would not really look because the lord will send you a wonderful girl when he is ready for you to be with her.. I hope you find what you are lookin for have a wonderful day. God bless =)
 
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