I noticed some Christian singles seem to almost have a fear of relationship and the idea of a resulting intimacy that union will bring; and do not take the steps to bring themselves to thier best and be pro-active about availability and resulting relationship. I believe God is all about relationship and various forms of intimacy are doorways for two to commune and know each other on the deepest of levels. In ancient Israel, a person who found a wife and vice-versa was considered blessed by God, and one could not be a rabbi unless married. Once married, the interest needs to be kept and cultivated by doing all those things that keep one in shape and ones persona and intellect sharp; and intimacy explored and developed - all of which leads to a healthy vibrant oneness that extends into all areas of ones life mutually...
