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Maureen12

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Does anyone have advice on how I can get a nice Christian guy to notice me? I'm really shy and tend to like shy guys so this doesn't help
 
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Ugly

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The only way for this is to step outside of the 'shy zone'. There is really no way to stay comfortably shy and get a guy to notice you both, unless he notices you to begin with. You really just have to put yourself out there, and this can be difficult even for people who aren't shy.
You really have to treat him a bit different than you do others. You have to be a little more pushy, not in a bad way. But make effort to be around him more, maybe try to sit next to him. Be a little flirty, put yourself out there and, to be honest, be a little vulnerable. Anyone who steps out to get another persons attention, or ask them out or whatever, is taking a risk and making themselves vulnerable because there is always the chance of rejection.
If you want to get his attention you have to step outside of the shyness and be a little bold.
 
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Maureen12

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ok. i'll try. thanks.
 
RickShafer

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Just smile at him whenever he looks at you. - (when you place yourself in his range of view.)
He'll get the message.
If he's so shy that he won't even return a smile, you might not want to 'go there' anyway.
 
wisebeardman

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RickShafer said:
Just smile at him whenever he looks at you. - (when you place yourself in his range of view.)
He'll get the message.
If he's so shy that he won't even return a smile, you might not want to 'go there' anyway.
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Now hang on.

if some woman smiles at me. I just figure she is smiling at someone/something else.

so thus I will not return a smile at someone. since honestly chances are she aint smiling for me.
 
TigerScent777

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...yes, I agree - smile - and you may want to approach him after a couple of smiles and just introduce yourself if he smiles back - really, he probably should be doing that, but I like a woman that approaches - just ensure its reciprocated - don't keep approaching or seeking further interactions if he does not in some way respond in turn and show interest :)
 
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