Really starting to wonder if I'll ever find a girlfriend.

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DABEARS85

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lil-rush said:
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On a less serious note, every time dothackzero posts a thread about dating, I think about the Jake and Amir Dating Coach videos. Funny, but not really appropriate for a Christian site, so I can't post links to them. Basically, according to the dating coach, the way to get a girlfriend is to insult her and walk around with your shirt off. Horrible advice, but oh so hilarious.
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Are they italian men with spikey black hair that talk with a new york accent? bahaha

on a less serious note, certain new york/new jersey women really do find that style of picking up women attractive

Jaegerbombs! Jaegerbombs! Not now chief, im in the zone!
 
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J0Y

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Im 36
My last relationship was 16yrs ago
I have prayed
and prayed
and prayed....

Fretting doesn't help
Longing makes you lonely
Jesus said to me
Find your significance and security in me
Look to me to fulfill ALL your needs
I know the desires of your heart
I am a good God
TRUST ME

I have struggled at times and still felt lonely
but this I KNOW FOR SURE
looking and longing for what you don't have
only makes you daydream about what could be
instead of asking God - What is it you want me to do then?

We are his children
he wants us to be happy
having a girlfriend/boyfriend won't complete us or bring happiness
knowing we are the Lord's and are being used by him is what brings fulfillment
submit all your worries and cares to Jesus
and ask him
WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR ME JESUS, PLACE YOUR DESIRES ON MY HEART, HELP ME TO SERVE YOU WELL SO I WILL LOVE WELL WHEN/IF YOU CHOOSE FOR ME TO BE IN RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER. I WANT TO BE YOUR HANDS, I WANT TO BE YOUR FEET, I WILL GO WHERE YOU SEND ME.

I prayed that....
God took me many places as a single girl
I worked all over my country
I was a missionary to another country
I toured in a band for a year
I studied and am on my way to getting a degree
YES, there always is lonely times...
but ALLOW JESUS to be your ALL
when the lonely times come
ALLOW JESUS to fill those needs

God bless :)
 
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lil-rush

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DABEARS85 said:
Are they italian men with spikey black hair that talk with a new york accent? bahaha
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ha no.

on a less serious note, certain new york/new jersey women really do find that style of picking up women attractive

Jaegerbombs! Jaegerbombs! Not now chief, im in the zone!
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Well, I'm basically a southerner, so I don't care for that mean talking. As a comedy act, it works, though.
 
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Raebear

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Girls want men that can be strong and confident. If you reach out to girls for friendship, eventually a relationship will form. The relationship could be a mutually platonic friendship, a brother/sister bond, or even just aquaintances. There will be one relationship that will evolve into love. It's just going to take time. Friendships are always the first step to a real relationship. Don't doubt yourself. Social anxiety is a hard deal to get over, but you will. God doesn't give us hardships we can not overcome, only ways to prove we're strong. Think of talking to a girl you don't know as a way to overcome a setback not casually hop over a flippen huge mountain. The worst case scenario is just rejection. You'll get over it in a few days, but you can't give up.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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wow you have literally commented on everything i have posted today. I........... im speechless.
 
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NukePooch

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NodMyHeadLikeYeah said:
wow you have literally commented on everything i have posted today. I........... im speechless.
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Well, my penchant for the offering of useless information is a gift straight from God. I'm sure He gets a giggle from it now and then...
 
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talitha

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lil-rush said:
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On a less serious note, every time dothackzero posts a thread about dating, I think about the Jake and Amir Dating Coach videos. Funny, but not really appropriate for a Christian site, so I can't post links to them. Basically, according to the dating coach, the way to get a girlfriend is to insult her and walk around with your shirt off. Horrible advice, but oh so hilarious.
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hahaha right as you are on the inappropriateness angle... how funny would that actually be!
Ok, guy who started the thread (or multiple threads, as the case seems to be) We love you man, have some respect and good christian morals for your fellow brothers and sisters. Treat as you would be treated, love your neighbour as you love yourself yea.. the guys have tried to befriend you and help you out. Even if you honestly think in your heart of hearts that you cannot possibly put into practise anything that has been said.. a simple reply of thanks would, I presume, be appreciated, by all these people who've just tried to help a brother out man! :)
You're a good guy, you've got a lot going for you I bet. Every time you think about this subject, pick up your bible and seek out some of Gods promises... and maybe pluck out an eyelash or two in the process.
Knowledge of who it is we serve, combined with a half bald eye or two.. I recon will help you on your way dude! Love ya, with all the sisterly love in the world.. go spend some time with 'Dad' yea xx :)
 
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