-
Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and text, with the Christian Chat app. You can also start or participate in a Bible-based discussion here in the Christian Chat Forums, where members can also share with each other their own videos, pictures, or favorite Christian music.
If you are a Christian and need encouragement and fellowship, we're here for you! If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? Join us!
To make new Christian friends now around the world, click here to join Christian Chat.
N
Not a fan of the r word....................Literally, it's on a list of words i hate.
Someone making a fuss over me makes me uncomfortable, i dont like big displays of (for lack of a better word) mooshy stuff.
All the things guys do that are supposed to be " romantic" seem so.... old. Theres nothing new about any of it, nothing exciting.
Men have been giving women flowers, candy, taking them to fancy schmancy resturants for like ever and ever. How does any of that say, i like you or your important to me, or whatever feeling your trying to convey when he's probably done those same things for how many other women...
I dont even like flowers, but i love books. I'd much rather a guy give me that.
I'd rather be given Alien vs predator or have him watch the latest episode of finding bigfoot on animal planet with me.
Bottom line i dont believe in romance. I think if you wanna show someone how you feel about them, do the stuff they like to do.
Someone making a fuss over me makes me uncomfortable, i dont like big displays of (for lack of a better word) mooshy stuff.
All the things guys do that are supposed to be " romantic" seem so.... old. Theres nothing new about any of it, nothing exciting.
Men have been giving women flowers, candy, taking them to fancy schmancy resturants for like ever and ever. How does any of that say, i like you or your important to me, or whatever feeling your trying to convey when he's probably done those same things for how many other women...
I dont even like flowers, but i love books. I'd much rather a guy give me that.
I'd rather be given Alien vs predator or have him watch the latest episode of finding bigfoot on animal planet with me.
Bottom line i dont believe in romance. I think if you wanna show someone how you feel about them, do the stuff they like to do.
A
I like to be romanced, it makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside 
I think it has to do with love languages- how we like to show our love and how we like to receive it. It can be different for everyone,and not subject to a particular gender. If anyone knows about Love Languages, my dominant language is Gifts, followed by Quality Time
I think it has to do with love languages- how we like to show our love and how we like to receive it. It can be different for everyone,and not subject to a particular gender. If anyone knows about Love Languages, my dominant language is Gifts, followed by Quality Time
Last edited:
S
I like romance as in songs dedicated, lame poems and stuff at times,,,, but really in teeny doses or it becomes to much, I would prefer a guy to be my best friend instead of the sap, to be able to talk about anything deep and laugh,about anything no matter how inappropriate it is lol (no pc) ... share all the dirty secrets.. ya and flowers arent my thing either, nor is valentines day, its a pain in the rear really.
If a girl bought me a new Windows computer I'd get bugs.
Baked goods are always a winner.
Dunno if I agree with the rest of your post (although I can see your point) but I do like that!
If I was in a relationship I'd need her to show she loved me... that could be in so many different ways though and not necessarily romantic.
Baked goods are always a winner.
Dunno if I agree with the rest of your post (although I can see your point) but I do like that!
If I was in a relationship I'd need her to show she loved me... that could be in so many different ways though and not necessarily romantic.
I dont know but in some in cultures the girl has to do the first move. Like in japan, they have to woo a man that they admire. It's kinda sad that women are becoming more forward and some are willing to make the first move. Our society sped up. Nowadays, guys dont court girls anymore. What happened to the times where in a guy would ask the girl's parent's permission to court her? Idk. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned.
I don't get it why some girls don't want to be courted. Hmmm...Don't they want to be pampered? lol. They find it humiliating if a man wants to pay for their dinner or they think it is degrading to wait for him to cal. Sometimes I wish I was born during the medieval times. Lol.
I don't get it why some girls don't want to be courted. Hmmm...Don't they want to be pampered? lol. They find it humiliating if a man wants to pay for their dinner or they think it is degrading to wait for him to cal. Sometimes I wish I was born during the medieval times. Lol.
V
My cousins and I were talking a few years ago about what romance means to us. For two of us, we were single, so it was more of flowers, and doing sweet little things. But for my other cousin, who was married, it was more about her husband doing the dishes every now and then, or just holding her when she's sick.
And Dliz, I'm sorta with you. Maybe not so much the Medival days, but say like the 40's.
And Dliz, I'm sorta with you. Maybe not so much the Medival days, but say like the 40's.
