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Romantically you can try date sites but im suprised at how empty it feels there and no "good spirits" and chat and flow or interest.
Maybe you have better luck.
Or try this site if you date chat on camera in single section.
If you are to shy maybe christian mingle but there was not much chat there either what i experienced.
Maybe seek a professional dating agency in real life to help you or ask a church or priest to introduce you to some "candidates"
Better alone than those bad for and to you.
Often they may say you will be alone unless you are with us.
Choose friends and partner, its a right to choose spouse and friends that good for and to you , not abuse, threaten , steal from you etc.
Maybe try play with your self if you can.
Take care of self such as paint nails and or moisturise hands, try exercise.
All these things difficult when one is depressed and perhaps no energy, alone and maybe people trying get away from you.
Take your self out for dinner some day.
Date with yourself.
If you not in bed 7pm every night du to exhaustion and depression you can stay up late and treat yourself and even dress up (for yourself and God...)
Save up for a holiday.
If you are not to afraid visit church and hope you are welcomed and no "outsider" of church and community.
Try connect date site and or forums. (i had no luck so far) you may have more luck.
Feels like computer been hacked and isolated aswell.
If afford a course or move location.
New environment can do wonders.
Move to a new town.
Maybe the people there will be more welcoming and nice so you feel a part of community.
Maybe take weekend drives try find a good town and place you may like to live.
A place you feel belonging and included.
Maybe bake some cookies.
Stay away from alcohol to comfort your loneliness.
Alcohol when depressed and lonely make you do bad things make you feel worse.
Maybe you run into strangers arms for a cuddle cause you so alone and turn into one night stand.
I feel the same way although God loves you and me and I love myself.
It is difficult give the love to self as am working and feel like im not in my body and all over the place aswell as not received money for my work. (yet) and have stalkers try marry me not for love to use as slave, isolate, threaten, they are crime but dont seem that way.
I have been working so hard and not received ackknowledgement for it or money. (yet)
I dont need praise or dalting but i do need access my money and ackknowledged that it is my work.
I do volunteerwork sometimes aswell but theres paid work and volunteer work and i have not received money for hard work and thats upsetting to me as people been stealing from me been living wonderfully.
The work i have done is not with my body, "physical labour".
I have a family who are not my real family and it is time for me to leave them and seek my real true family.
I always felt it.
Felt the hate, jealousy and they stealing and hating on me. Much psychology in harmful malicious ways also.
They travel world on my coat and work while i look and feel bad but am good .
things are not always as they seem.
I was working so hard and someone else got praise and money for my work while i shadowed slave got isolated, bullied and death threates and many worse things happened.
When cancer and recovering from it they living wonderfully and tell me i dont deserve food, love, my money etc but theeeeey deserve it.
Maturity level of so called adults astounding and what worse so many of them such behaviours.
Hypocriciy 35 yrs of feeling experiencing it... they were bully adults and children and the crimes was not channeled or balanced and what looked good was not good.
I have no friends and have some family i dont want anything to do with and do not feel they are family.
seek true family.
No matter how lonely it better be alone than with those bad for and to you.
Better be alone than those abuse you, steal from you, do crime, threaten you etc.
Be alone and wait for those good for and to you.
Quality people.
Someone was tortured but the ones who did it took roll as "carers" to cover up crime then they said he mad and stole money and used as slave.
They been feeding dead humans instead of chicken to some people at some places.
It may be personal.
Does not taste so nice.
Have you animal friends?
I would love live farm with dogs and horses when assessed my money.
Concider husband. lol (been betrayed to deeply to many times) (i would require legal prenup)
Maybe you can volunteer as a dog walker .
I did that but got turned down, they rather keep dog in cage 24/7 so had to report it.
once one is in such loneliness etc it difficult get into anywhere .
Often it may be because of some jealous malicious people.
Try take care of yourself.
Save up for a massage.
As for people...
Pray for it, a good people come your way and you feel the difference.
I always feel difference what people around.
Some can communicate with others not.
also cause i signlanguage some times a sign language not everyone understand so discriminate.
Best wishes for you.
and God bless
and 4give my litle "blabber" that came along with it ...
Maybe you have better luck.
Or try this site if you date chat on camera in single section.
If you are to shy maybe christian mingle but there was not much chat there either what i experienced.
Maybe seek a professional dating agency in real life to help you or ask a church or priest to introduce you to some "candidates"
Better alone than those bad for and to you.
Often they may say you will be alone unless you are with us.
Choose friends and partner, its a right to choose spouse and friends that good for and to you , not abuse, threaten , steal from you etc.
Maybe try play with your self if you can.
Take care of self such as paint nails and or moisturise hands, try exercise.
All these things difficult when one is depressed and perhaps no energy, alone and maybe people trying get away from you.
Take your self out for dinner some day.
Date with yourself.
If you not in bed 7pm every night du to exhaustion and depression you can stay up late and treat yourself and even dress up (for yourself and God...)
Save up for a holiday.
If you are not to afraid visit church and hope you are welcomed and no "outsider" of church and community.
Try connect date site and or forums. (i had no luck so far) you may have more luck.
Feels like computer been hacked and isolated aswell.
If afford a course or move location.
New environment can do wonders.
Move to a new town.
Maybe the people there will be more welcoming and nice so you feel a part of community.
Maybe take weekend drives try find a good town and place you may like to live.
A place you feel belonging and included.
Maybe bake some cookies.
Stay away from alcohol to comfort your loneliness.
Alcohol when depressed and lonely make you do bad things make you feel worse.
Maybe you run into strangers arms for a cuddle cause you so alone and turn into one night stand.
I feel the same way although God loves you and me and I love myself.
It is difficult give the love to self as am working and feel like im not in my body and all over the place aswell as not received money for my work. (yet) and have stalkers try marry me not for love to use as slave, isolate, threaten, they are crime but dont seem that way.
I have been working so hard and not received ackknowledgement for it or money. (yet)
I dont need praise or dalting but i do need access my money and ackknowledged that it is my work.
I do volunteerwork sometimes aswell but theres paid work and volunteer work and i have not received money for hard work and thats upsetting to me as people been stealing from me been living wonderfully.
The work i have done is not with my body, "physical labour".
I have a family who are not my real family and it is time for me to leave them and seek my real true family.
I always felt it.
Felt the hate, jealousy and they stealing and hating on me. Much psychology in harmful malicious ways also.
They travel world on my coat and work while i look and feel bad but am good .
things are not always as they seem.
I was working so hard and someone else got praise and money for my work while i shadowed slave got isolated, bullied and death threates and many worse things happened.
When cancer and recovering from it they living wonderfully and tell me i dont deserve food, love, my money etc but theeeeey deserve it.
Maturity level of so called adults astounding and what worse so many of them such behaviours.
Hypocriciy 35 yrs of feeling experiencing it... they were bully adults and children and the crimes was not channeled or balanced and what looked good was not good.
I have no friends and have some family i dont want anything to do with and do not feel they are family.
seek true family.
No matter how lonely it better be alone than with those bad for and to you.
Better be alone than those abuse you, steal from you, do crime, threaten you etc.
Be alone and wait for those good for and to you.
Quality people.
Someone was tortured but the ones who did it took roll as "carers" to cover up crime then they said he mad and stole money and used as slave.
They been feeding dead humans instead of chicken to some people at some places.
It may be personal.
Does not taste so nice.
Have you animal friends?
I would love live farm with dogs and horses when assessed my money.
Concider husband. lol (been betrayed to deeply to many times) (i would require legal prenup)
Maybe you can volunteer as a dog walker .
I did that but got turned down, they rather keep dog in cage 24/7 so had to report it.
once one is in such loneliness etc it difficult get into anywhere .
Often it may be because of some jealous malicious people.
Try take care of yourself.
Save up for a massage.
As for people...
Pray for it, a good people come your way and you feel the difference.
I always feel difference what people around.
Some can communicate with others not.
also cause i signlanguage some times a sign language not everyone understand so discriminate.
Best wishes for you.
and God bless
and 4give my litle "blabber" that came along with it ...
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First off, don't feel bad that you feel sad and lonely. Loneliness is a part of the human condition. Everybody goes through it at one point. But I will have to say that you are wrong at one area.
May I say that there is Someone out there for you? He is Jesus, and he promises to stick closer than a brother. You are complete in Christ (Colossians 2:10). He is the lover of our souls (Song of Solomon 7). It is very important to know that in my opinion. I would agree with everyone else here that seeking a relationship is never truly a bad thing. We were created for them. But if a relationship is what you need more than the blood of Christ, then it will never fulfill. Ecclesiastes talks about that. So maybe getting some girlfriends and going out to work out or to lunch after Sunday service could help. Maybe that will help take away. But only the Love of Christ could ever take away the sadness and take away the loneliness. Ask the Lord to satisfy you everyday with his steadfast love.
I will say, though, that this is where the church should step in. There have to be some friendly couple that you can go ahead and become a group. You don't and shouldn't try to be alone if you do not have any friends. Try to strong some believers that will help you grow and make community with you. Hopefully there are some that will love to have you.
I hope something I said will help assuage your heart. But really, I can only say let the love of Christ satisfy your soul.
May I say that there is Someone out there for you? He is Jesus, and he promises to stick closer than a brother. You are complete in Christ (Colossians 2:10). He is the lover of our souls (Song of Solomon 7). It is very important to know that in my opinion. I would agree with everyone else here that seeking a relationship is never truly a bad thing. We were created for them. But if a relationship is what you need more than the blood of Christ, then it will never fulfill. Ecclesiastes talks about that. So maybe getting some girlfriends and going out to work out or to lunch after Sunday service could help. Maybe that will help take away. But only the Love of Christ could ever take away the sadness and take away the loneliness. Ask the Lord to satisfy you everyday with his steadfast love.
I will say, though, that this is where the church should step in. There have to be some friendly couple that you can go ahead and become a group. You don't and shouldn't try to be alone if you do not have any friends. Try to strong some believers that will help you grow and make community with you. Hopefully there are some that will love to have you.
I hope something I said will help assuage your heart. But really, I can only say let the love of Christ satisfy your soul.
I'm sorry you feel that way, and I can (many times over) relate...
...HOWEVER...
...there are a few things I'd like to let you know.
1. You're awesome!
2. God loves you. (I know you know, but do you feel it? You can.)
3. You are loved! (By people as well as God, and I'm pretty sure of this...because there are people like and much better than me in the world.)
4. There IS someone (really...more than just 1 to be honest...probably hundreds) out there for you. It's the details of working that all out that we get into a bind with. That said, seek God about it. He'll tell you what's up, and wants the best for you. Sometimes, we just need some help along the way, ya know?
Well, that's what I wanted you to know. That, and, that there is a big community of people here which would be happy to love, encourage, pray, and support you in whatever ways we can. All you need do is ask. ^^
...HOWEVER...
...there are a few things I'd like to let you know.
1. You're awesome!
2. God loves you. (I know you know, but do you feel it? You can.)
3. You are loved! (By people as well as God, and I'm pretty sure of this...because there are people like and much better than me in the world.)
4. There IS someone (really...more than just 1 to be honest...probably hundreds) out there for you. It's the details of working that all out that we get into a bind with. That said, seek God about it. He'll tell you what's up, and wants the best for you. Sometimes, we just need some help along the way, ya know?
Well, that's what I wanted you to know. That, and, that there is a big community of people here which would be happy to love, encourage, pray, and support you in whatever ways we can. All you need do is ask. ^^