Self reflection question..

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azlightsout

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#21
Mentally im in a better place - life wise im stagnant thou
 
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Hellooo

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#22
Thanks for sharing everyone....i have a lot of thoughts, a lot of them not quite so coherent yet, but I'm definitely reading
 
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LiJo

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#23
What would 3-years-ago-you think of you today?

I ask because I am feeling like I have gone through a lot of major changes in a short amount of time, personally. Just curious.
My 3 year ago me would think; all the difficult times endured were well worth it, because she would definitely see how God transformed me into who I am today. She will also see what Faith & Hope can do when you pray and believe. :)
 
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Faithful_Fay

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This is such a tough one because I'm fully aware that the me of three years ago would be so dissatisfied or disappointed with what the current me looks like. I don't know that I would have been able to comprehend how much growth and maturity I've gained while still managing to look like I've gained little tangible progress.

Three years ago, I was planning a cross country move, continuing my education, adopting another dog, and buying a house. Three years later, Im still planning the same things but a whole lot of life has transpired in between. My mom developed liver cancer as I planned my move. Move went on hold. I quit both school and work to take care of Mom. Found out I was a match to donate a portion of my liver. Went through an 8 hour surgery and months of recovery. After a year, I decided to go back to school only to end up back in the hospital with a complication from the donation that required emergency surgery. Now I'm recovered and back to praying and planning.

All that has transpired in these few years has only brought a new depth to my relationship with God and faith. But, I honestly don't know that I would have appreciated how precious this growth is three years ago. I thought I knew what it was to truly rely on God but these past few years taught me invaluable life lessons.
 
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3 years ago: *staring intently at an incomplete puzzle on a table*

2 years and 364 days later: *Picks up a puzzle piece*

Now: *Slaps piece out of hand* WHAT ARE YOU DOING?

*Sets table on fire and eats a burrito*
 
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#26
When I self reflect, I laugh at the about of stupid I have. It makes for an interesting life though.
 
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3-yrs-ago-melita looks at present-melita:

"daaaaaaang, girl! you're no longer depressed? you go, glenn coco!!!!!!!!"

:D

i also thought i would never be in a relationship again. i was settling with the thought of never getting married.
You Mean Girl, you! LOL
 
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kenthomas27

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#29
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Well, I reflect I wish that KFC had never moved in.
 
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kenthomas27

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#31
They don't call it Ken's Favorite Chicken for no reason.
Well, I have learnt a little something about fitness.


Fitness whole chicken leg in my mouf.
 

Dino246

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What would 3-years-ago-you think of you today?

I ask because I am feeling like I have gone through a lot of major changes in a short amount of time, personally. Just curious.
I can relate to the 'major change' part. Three years ago I was married, so the changes that have happened were prompted by a desire to deal with all my junk. I suspect that me from three years ago would find today's me more like Jesus: more certain that God is good and faithful, more patient, more forgiving, and more gracious. And, surprisingly, more at peace.
 
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andream2285

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#33
What would 3-years-ago-you think of you today?

I ask because I am feeling like I have gone through a lot of major changes in a short amount of time, personally. Just curious.
For sure. I have changed a lot, personally. I have learned a lot of things through the hardest moments of my life. I am more mature. I have grown in Christ a lot. Very interesting times...
 
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jeremyPJ

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#34
This is such a tough one because I'm fully aware that the me of three years ago would be so dissatisfied or disappointed with what the current me looks like. I don't know that I would have been able to comprehend how much growth and maturity I've gained while still managing to look like I've gained little tangible progress.

Three years ago, I was planning a cross country move, continuing my education, adopting another dog, and buying a house. Three years later, Im still planning the same things but a whole lot of life has transpired in between. My mom developed liver cancer as I planned my move. Move went on hold. I quit both school and work to take care of Mom. Found out I was a match to donate a portion of my liver. Went through an 8 hour surgery and months of recovery. After a year, I decided to go back to school only to end up back in the hospital with a complication from the donation that required emergency surgery. Now I'm recovered and back to praying and planning.

All that has transpired in these few years has only brought a new depth to my relationship with God and faith. But, I honestly don't know that I would have appreciated how precious this growth is three years ago. I thought I knew what it was to truly rely on God but these past few years taught me invaluable life lessons.
God bless you!!!
 
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PurerInHeart

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#35
Happy that I no longer feel obligated to high-maintenance people who like to cause drama and suck the joy out of my life. These are fault-finders and busybodies. They are not happy unless they control you and feel like they are above you. I've snipped those puppet strings (yeah me). Lol
 
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DzzRae

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#36
I am not certain I fully understand this question. Are you asking how I felt about myself 3 years ago or are you asking if the person I was three years ago would like the me today?
 
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JustWhoIAm

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#37
Weak pathetic unloved uncared about meaningless useless beyond dumb a worm of worms disgusting the list goes on these are all words that I described myself as three years ago today I consider myself weak but rejoice in it because he has shown his great power in my weakness I no longer feel uncared about I no longer feel meaningless or dumb I no longer consider myself a worm or disgusting. in fact just this past year alone God has molded me in many profound ways the old me couldn't possibly believe this is who I would be even if I showed up traveling through time
"Not because of who I am
But because of what You've done.
Not because of what I've done
But because of who You are."
 
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I am not certain I fully understand this question. Are you asking how I felt about myself 3 years ago or are you asking if the person I was three years ago would like the me today?
I think it's the second one.
 
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crosstweed

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#39
3-years younger me...
"... Is it possible to be completely unsurprised and totally shocked simultaneously?"

Current me...
"Shhh... Play it cool..."
 
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DzzRae

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#40
If zeroturbulence was correct in the interpretation of this; my answer would be: "The person I was three years ago would be proud of me today; for never losing the faith; making it through every lesson needed; never giving up on myself, but mostly for choosing not to stay where I was, physically, emotionally, and spiritually."