I have seen it said on this forum that us single folk (particularly the younger ones) are "just too picky". I agree that there are no perfect people, so for us to look for a perfect person is a futile effort.
But, it made me think: Where is the line between having high standards, combined with "preferences" (are those super important?), and being too picky? How do you not fall into the opposite end of the spectrum where you simply "settle"? What does "settling" mean to you? How do you keep from doing so without being too picky?
I don't know if this makes sense. There is a balance in there somewhere, of having standards but not being too picky, and I'm curious to hear what you CCers think.
But, it made me think: Where is the line between having high standards, combined with "preferences" (are those super important?), and being too picky? How do you not fall into the opposite end of the spectrum where you simply "settle"? What does "settling" mean to you? How do you keep from doing so without being too picky?
I don't know if this makes sense. There is a balance in there somewhere, of having standards but not being too picky, and I'm curious to hear what you CCers think.