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Very well said Rauleetoe. Well, I most defintely will dress decently when I go to church, not that I ever dress provocatively. But it helps to have a guy's honesty about this.
RIKANCHULA
It's very hard, I understand. But going through breakup in a relationship not planned by God is trillion times more heartbroken and painful than the frustration and loneliness of being alone and waiting for God's will. Trust me! The broken pieces in my life due to being in love with a non-believer is like venom in a wound, takes a long long time to heal. From now on, I really would rather be single all my life than not being part of God's plan. It is very bittersweet when guys are after us Christian gals, but remember we're God's daughter, His princesses, only a godloving Christian brother deserves us. Stay strong. Hugsxxx
RIKANCHULA
It's very hard, I understand. But going through breakup in a relationship not planned by God is trillion times more heartbroken and painful than the frustration and loneliness of being alone and waiting for God's will. Trust me! The broken pieces in my life due to being in love with a non-believer is like venom in a wound, takes a long long time to heal. From now on, I really would rather be single all my life than not being part of God's plan. It is very bittersweet when guys are after us Christian gals, but remember we're God's daughter, His princesses, only a godloving Christian brother deserves us. Stay strong. Hugsxxx
M
My last relationship ended a few months ago after 3 years. It was always a long distance relationship because he was stationed at a military base and I was up in northern ca. We had talked about him finding God and wanting to go back to church, and it really seemed like he was beginning to live his life for Him. I was so happy with his choice but always felt a little weary about how some things just weren't adding up. I told him I was looking to be in a relationship based on my beliefs and he said he waas okay with that. He moved up here and automatically wanted to be extremely physical, didn't want to go to mass with me, and wanted to party all the time. The last straw was when he raised his hand to me, and I realized I had been holding onto something that wasn't good for me for fear of being lonley. Now I am trying to live my life for Him and not worry about finding a man because that part is all in gods plan for me.
P
I just smiled as I read through this post...I am so happy being single right now and spending time Alone in the Lord that I was beginning to wonder, is this really where I'm suppose to be?? I keep getting told "it is not good for man to be alone". But I'm not lonely nor am I alone... What has helped me with that emotion is God... He reminds me that emotions of loneliness were built in me for a reason .. It is to remind us like an alarm ! the holy spirit comes quickly and reminds me "loneliness appears when you are starting to buy into a false belief that someone or something can love you more than I love you Michelle". Remember, no one and no thing loves you more than Me". it's at this point where I will believe what God tells me over what my emotions are trying to tell me... Out hope is in the Lord
A
I read that a lot of people on here are waiting on God and I am beginning to wonder: Do any of you think that God is calling more Christians to be single? It sure seems like a lot these days. I know that there are other factors that are influencing a longer single life, but it maybe something to ponder. Perhaps, God knows something that we don't in this regard?
F
Hey 
It's hard when you are feeling so lonely,but I believe when you are steadfast in prayer,God will give you a loving husband,but why we sometimes have to wait so lang? I don't have te answer to that...maybe to get more patience and to expect everything from God...so hold on to His promises
God bless you
It's hard when you are feeling so lonely,but I believe when you are steadfast in prayer,God will give you a loving husband,but why we sometimes have to wait so lang? I don't have te answer to that...maybe to get more patience and to expect everything from God...so hold on to His promises
God bless you
God asked me yesterday, "Will you give up anything and everything to do My will and serve Me?" The correct answer of course is yes. I knew what He was asking, however, and though I still said yes, it made me wonder.
A great many folks answer the question, "Are you okay with being single all your days if that is what God has called you to?" with "yes...but I don't feel that He's called me to that"...which means the answer is truly no, they would not be okay with it.
For me, God wanted to know if I would give up being single if He leads me to marriage. Yes, Lord. Thankfully that is not what I am called to currently and my single life is not currently in jeopardy but this got me wondering how many others see the cost in reverse to the majority, where the fear lies in one day being called to marry and release being single as opposed to the fear of being single forever.
A great many folks answer the question, "Are you okay with being single all your days if that is what God has called you to?" with "yes...but I don't feel that He's called me to that"...which means the answer is truly no, they would not be okay with it.
For me, God wanted to know if I would give up being single if He leads me to marriage. Yes, Lord. Thankfully that is not what I am called to currently and my single life is not currently in jeopardy but this got me wondering how many others see the cost in reverse to the majority, where the fear lies in one day being called to marry and release being single as opposed to the fear of being single forever.
We shouldn't fear marriage. Marriage is supposed to be because you WANT to be together with this person for ETERNITY. Aside from the usual nervousness, your heart should be 100% delighted at the thought of spending the rest of your life with this person. If its anything less than that, then there is something wrong and the marriage shouldn't take place.
F
Man, what a dilema, waiting for your mate. I've been wating for a few years now.being alone has become a state of being. I know that God has something to do with this. I can feel it. I've I felt myself being spiritually bloked from several women that I've tried to talk to. Its like being in limbo. You you've got to let it run its course. I honest can't tell you what's going to happen in the futuree. But the key point for me is that I think that God is keeping me single ,so when the one comes along that I'm supposed to be with I won't be tied up with someone else. I know that God keeps guard over all of my relationships. I let him decide who comes and who goes, or who returns. My spirit exceps this but my mind questions it. That's why iwalk in the spirit. I have had to throw many a beautiful fish back into the sea because God said no.but there is nothing that I can do about it because God is in charge. Some I will post one of the mmost beautiful love stories that you have ever heard. I feel it coming. I know its coming. Be of good cheer my friends. When you least expect it , it will happen, and you will be glad that you waited.