....THAT'S why you are breaking up with me?!

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iTOREtheSKY

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Ugly said:
That's silly. I won't even date you if i dislike your music that much. (actually that's true. ;)) Country or mainstream pop and you are out of the running. =P



Worst breakup for me? My fiance not even telling me. She just stopped talking to me one day, stopped taking my calls and had her family lie about her whereabouts. When i did get a hold of her 2 weeks later she acted happy to hear from me and apologized for being so 'busy'. She said she was long distance on the other line and asked if i'd wait while she said bye to them. She hung up and wouldn't answer the phone again. Last time we ever spoke.
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I could never date or marry a woman who listened to country music either Ugly..I'm with ya' on that fo' sho'! lol That is absolutely the most suck-tastic breakup ever dude...man. I am kinda speechless. Sorry man.
 
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Sponge_Bob

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broke up with her because i realized she was nuts..i mean certifiable
 
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Sponge_Bob

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because her parents were annoying
 
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biscuit

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It's sad & ridiculous
 
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kenthomas27

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biscuit said:
It's sad & ridiculous
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You're absolutely right. It's sad and degrading and the thought of breaking a relationship off because they don't share the same music likes is abhorrent behavior.






Feet, on the other hand....

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Nautilus

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I can understand the music thing...Girls just never understand they will alwyays be second in my heart to Taylor Swift...

 
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Jullianna

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Nautilus said:
I can understand the music thing...Girls just never understand they will alwyays be second in my heart to Taylor Swift...

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Until you posted your wedding song in the other thread, I would never have taken you for a romantic. :) Sweet song choice.
 
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just_monicat

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Elizabeth619 said:
I broke up with a guy because he told me he was in love with me after only dating for 3 weeks.
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yeah, stuff like that has totally made me bolt in the past too. i wish the world (movies and the like) would stop telling guys that it's ok to tell someone on their third date that they "plan to marry you someday" or something equally creepy. or after one date they are calling you 4x a day and asking what you're doing every weekend for the next year. i appreciate the enthusiasm, but sheesh. scary stuff.
 
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just_monicat

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Sponge_Bob said:
because her parents were annoying
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that's funny, that used to be my greatest fear. in the past i've been so worried about what someone will think of my crazy family that i have been known to completely overshare information way too early just so that i can get it out of the way and gauge the reaction to it all.

in reality no guy has given me any real grief over it, but even now, it's always something in the back my mind.
 
Nautilus

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Jullianna said:
Until you posted your wedding song in the other thread, I would never have taken you for a romantic. :) Sweet song choice.
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That might have been the sad thing thread, it was a classic taylor swift break up song. Though to make your comment truthful I guess I should now post a wedding song.
 
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Sponge_Bob

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Yea it can be a deal breaker. Definitely if you are not married. I mean i dont believe in divorce. But I do believe in breaking up or deciding to not marry someone.
 
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proverbs31woman29

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The most ridiculous breakup I had was when a guy told me that because I asked for my things back from him he wasn't interested in me anymore; he said that me saying this was "unforgivable". He said that he likes to test me by telling me he wants to break up so that I will fight for him to stay, which makes me think that he didn't want the relationship anyway, but was just trying to find an easy way to blame me for it. I am too much of an adult to be someone's puppet.

And yes, I gave him a time limit to return my things before I start court proceedings.
 
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I had a history of dating girls who didn't share my faith.

One girl in particular ended up getting dumped by me on the spot because she thought it was ridiculous I didn't drink at all and that I need to lighten up and act my age. She didn't stop there and started ranting, she thought I went to Church because of the image, not because I believed in it (that hurt). At the time I was also preparing for a tournament and I had mentioned to her that I was working for nothing less then a Gold medal. She thought it was ridiculous to dedicate so much to what she considered a hobby. This rant ended with an amazing line "You have to choose between me and God"

Haven't seen her since.



That wasn't the relationship that made me realise I needed to seek God in my relationships as well. No the girl who made me realise that God was the most important thing in everything, including relationships was the one who didn't understand why I was so upset that she hooked up with some guy at a club. "Its just a kiss, no big deal, are you seriously going to break up over that? Act like an adult!"

I acted like an adult, have not been in any relationships since. Life is good.
 
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Jullianna

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proverbs31woman29 said:
The most ridiculous breakup I had was when a guy told me that because I asked for my things back from him he wasn't interested in me anymore; he said that me saying this was "unforgivable". He said that he likes to test me by telling me he wants to break up so that I will fight for him to stay, which makes me think that he didn't want the relationship anyway, but was just trying to find an easy way to blame me for it. I am too much of an adult to be someone's puppet.

And yes, I gave him a time limit to return my things before I start court proceedings.
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Wow....you really dodged a bullet there! Good for you :)
 
garet82

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oh wow thats really bad of breaking up story .. sorry to hear that.
well, he should talk about it first to his gf before deciding to break her up.. she would feel bad n thinking about why He did that to her...
 
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