i'm nearly 33, still have not been out on a date, I can probably go till 35 till I need to mentally close myself off to the prospect simply so I can get on with life.
you're pretty much seen as a freak anyway by society if you're 30+ male and a virgin which doesn't help your self confidence. Some woman I work with when she found out I was a christian asked me if I was a virgin, I hate talking about it and never bring it up because for me it's something I feel awkward about. Anyway she said she'd never met a guy who was waiting, I wonder sometimes what is the point of following a rule that it seems no one else is bothering with. By my age it is something that is a negative impact on my life.
I can't make females want to date me, after so many years of turn downs and friend zoned it's kind of hard to make the effort. I've tried online dating sites, never get responses or anything but e-dating is terrible for men anyway because of how many more men than women are on there.
It's easy to say God loves you, but when you get no human validation of acceptance then it takes an exceedingly strong willed person to not be effected by it.
oh well just venting, maybe other older singles can give their experiences. I'm not asexual, just forced celibate.
you're pretty much seen as a freak anyway by society if you're 30+ male and a virgin which doesn't help your self confidence. Some woman I work with when she found out I was a christian asked me if I was a virgin, I hate talking about it and never bring it up because for me it's something I feel awkward about. Anyway she said she'd never met a guy who was waiting, I wonder sometimes what is the point of following a rule that it seems no one else is bothering with. By my age it is something that is a negative impact on my life.
I can't make females want to date me, after so many years of turn downs and friend zoned it's kind of hard to make the effort. I've tried online dating sites, never get responses or anything but e-dating is terrible for men anyway because of how many more men than women are on there.
It's easy to say God loves you, but when you get no human validation of acceptance then it takes an exceedingly strong willed person to not be effected by it.
oh well just venting, maybe other older singles can give their experiences. I'm not asexual, just forced celibate.