What are you looking for in a boyfriend/girlfriend?
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Essentially what I am looking for are 3 main things (as sterile as that may sound lol):
A woman who is a committed, genuine Christian - I would love to discuss things of a spiritual nature with her, which I can't at the moment!
Also someone where there is mutual physical attraction (I think that is adviseable lol).
Additionally, someone who is intelligent, which seems to be echoed by many others on here too!
I think anything else doesn't really matter (off the top of my head).
A woman who is a committed, genuine Christian - I would love to discuss things of a spiritual nature with her, which I can't at the moment!
Also someone where there is mutual physical attraction (I think that is adviseable lol).
Additionally, someone who is intelligent, which seems to be echoed by many others on here too!
I think anything else doesn't really matter (off the top of my head).
Z
I figure that the correct girlfriend for me, will be one that is intuned with 'GOD' as I am, devoted a her religious life, committed to me, honest in her doings, faithful and someone that I can trust, and rely up on.
I really wonder to myself sometimes, if there really is someone out there, for every man and woman.
I don't feel like normal persons will (although am normal myself..LOL!!), but in terms of being lonely from lack of physical companionship, I can always count on 'GOD's spiritual companionship. He is always there for me, through thick and thing, and if only I could find a girlfriend that is similar in a few of His qualities.
Currently, I am not heart-broken to the point of distress, but it would be good to have someone you can share bible-time with, hold hands with during private prayer sessions and one that will encourage me to further my overall spirituality. After all, you can never search too much, when you seeking to find 'GOD' and happiness.
I really wonder to myself sometimes, if there really is someone out there, for every man and woman.
I don't feel like normal persons will (although am normal myself..LOL!!), but in terms of being lonely from lack of physical companionship, I can always count on 'GOD's spiritual companionship. He is always there for me, through thick and thing, and if only I could find a girlfriend that is similar in a few of His qualities.
Currently, I am not heart-broken to the point of distress, but it would be good to have someone you can share bible-time with, hold hands with during private prayer sessions and one that will encourage me to further my overall spirituality. After all, you can never search too much, when you seeking to find 'GOD' and happiness.
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A man that loves God, but I prefer someone that's about as strong of a Christian as I am.
A man that is a virgin.
A man that's waiting for sex till he gets married.
He doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs.
A man that likes sports and likes to do outdoor things like kayaking or fishing, etc.
Age range 20 -24.
A man that is a virgin.
A man that's waiting for sex till he gets married.
He doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs.
A man that likes sports and likes to do outdoor things like kayaking or fishing, etc.
Age range 20 -24.
M
[h=3]1 Corinthians 13:11[/h]
[SUP]11 [/SUP]When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
I say this with love, man to man:
Video games and anime are a waste of your time unless you make those things for a living. The girl you described is not going to want a guy who listens to depressing minor tonality music, watches cartoons and hacks away his life in front of a screen. Be a man and do something productive with your time. Then she'll find you. You're living as a child and dreaming of your mommy. A grown woman wants a man who gets things done - not little video game playing child.
[SUP]11 [/SUP]When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
I say this with love, man to man:
Video games and anime are a waste of your time unless you make those things for a living. The girl you described is not going to want a guy who listens to depressing minor tonality music, watches cartoons and hacks away his life in front of a screen. Be a man and do something productive with your time. Then she'll find you. You're living as a child and dreaming of your mommy. A grown woman wants a man who gets things done - not little video game playing child.
C
Hmm...
1. Well she has to love the Lord. Duh.
2. Uhh... I'd like to be attracted to her. I won't name any characteristics or anything, as long as I think she's cute then it's all good.
3. I'd definitely prefer her to be a virgin, but that's actually not a deal-breaker in my opinion. People make mistakes, and some get saved later on in life after they make those mistakes. As long as she's a spiritual girl.
4. I want to be able to have fun just hanging out with her, and just talking to her.
5. I hope she's the perfect match for me, compatibly/personality-wise.
6. Age range doesn't really matter to me, just not too young or too old. I guess 18- 23??? I could go to 17 though, but idk that might be illegal or something, lol. So maybe not.
Ummmm, there's definitely some other stuff but I can't think of anything atm.
1. Well she has to love the Lord. Duh.
2. Uhh... I'd like to be attracted to her. I won't name any characteristics or anything, as long as I think she's cute then it's all good.
3. I'd definitely prefer her to be a virgin, but that's actually not a deal-breaker in my opinion. People make mistakes, and some get saved later on in life after they make those mistakes. As long as she's a spiritual girl.
4. I want to be able to have fun just hanging out with her, and just talking to her.
5. I hope she's the perfect match for me, compatibly/personality-wise.
6. Age range doesn't really matter to me, just not too young or too old. I guess 18- 23??? I could go to 17 though, but idk that might be illegal or something, lol. So maybe not.
Ummmm, there's definitely some other stuff but I can't think of anything atm.
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With love, I say this, man to man:
Consider looking a little more closely at HOW LONG AGO THIS THREAD STARTED. And perhaps noting that it died three and a half years ago.
Also consider noting that the person you are replying to, the OP...yeah, he's been banned...so he's not even going to read your response.
And I'll take minor over major any day of the week. Minor doesn't make music depressing.
Consider looking a little more closely at HOW LONG AGO THIS THREAD STARTED. And perhaps noting that it died three and a half years ago.
Also consider noting that the person you are replying to, the OP...yeah, he's been banned...so he's not even going to read your response.
And I'll take minor over major any day of the week. Minor doesn't make music depressing.