What are your relationship dealbreakers?

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GaryA

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If he has ever possessed a vagina as a part of his body...Imma have to say No thank ya. (Im referring to a person that was born female that has "transitioned" into a male looking person, just incase anyone was confused )
If they are not happy with the way God made them - it is not a good situation in any case.

If "she" was not born as a real-and-true bona fide normal female - no thanks... :eek: :( :censored:
 

Pipp

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I think if that happend the trans would need go look for someone who did the opposite, who was a male that transitioned to a female and found their 'other half'

You dont have to be nasty in your rejection of someone. Just say, you not the one for me, but there will be someone else for you.
Id NEVER be nasty to someone... my silliness was mainly joking... I figured most people would get that.
 

jennymae

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I’m reading a lot of folks transitioning in the media, but I have never actually met anybody who has done that. Maybe they look exactly like a man/woman and I can’t tell?
 

Lynx

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Id NEVER be nasty to someone... my silliness was mainly joking... I figured most people would get that.
All this is true, from not being nasty to the silliness. Pipp just made one little mistake: Lanolin ain't most people. :p
 

Lanolin

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I’m reading a lot of folks transitioning in the media, but I have never actually met anybody who has done that. Maybe they look exactly like a man/woman and I can’t tell?
well they wouldnt tell you unless you knew them well enough because they are trying to pass I suppose

I dont know of anyone in my circle of friends but do know of relatives of friends, and its maybe a bit more talked about these days.

I think people are having more gender dysphoria these days and there are so many 'options' that are adding to the confusion, I also think people are messing with genetics, with test tube babies, IVF etc.

Theres always been pressure to be the 'perfect' specimen of whatever gender and I guess people find it hard to live up to.

People joke about peoples appearances never thinking maybe they are taking it seriously esp if they are children. Ive had boys tell girls they look like boys they can be really mean about it
I also think a lot of boys are secretly intrgued about what its like to be a girl, and if they are showing any weakness or sensitivity, thats immediately seen as a girl thing.

But girls are often told to toughen up to and be like one of the boys cos they have to be to survive.
 

notmyown

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Id NEVER be nasty to someone... my silliness was mainly joking... I figured most people would get that.
Pipp, dear girl, i've read your posts for years, and have concluded you haven't a mean bone in your body. ♥

and i'm not just saying that so i'll have a place to stay if i ever make it to Georgia. :D
 

Lynx

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Pipp, dear girl, i've read your posts for years, and have concluded you haven't a mean bone in your body. ♥

and i'm not just saying that so i'll have a place to stay if i ever make it to Georgia. :D
Make a bad joke in her presence. You'll learn. She has a glare that could slice concrete.
 

jennymae

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Pipp, dear girl, i've read your posts for years, and have concluded you haven't a mean bone in your body. ♥

and i'm not just saying that so i'll have a place to stay if i ever make it to Georgia. :D
I don’t think the meatloaf team would fully agree to that statement. Sorry @Pipp I just couldn’t pass up a chance to be messin’ with ya.😁
 

Cameron143

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I don’t think the meatloaf team would fully agree to that statement. Sorry @Pipp I just couldn’t pass up a chance to be messin’ with a Georgia girl.😁
I'll translate for you Pipp...jennymae is saying...I'll be your huckleberry.
 

jennymae

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I'll translate for you Pipp...jennymae is saying...I'll be your huckleberry.
I ain’t nobody’s huckleberry!😂 And why you be quoting my post before I changed it? You typin’ too fast!😁
 

Cameron143

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You taking me?😁

Yeah, I’ve seen it, and now that you mention it I remember Doc Holliday saying “I’m your huckleberry” lol.
I'm otherwise spoken for so I won't be taking you. But if you decide to go, I'll be glad to pay for you and a date. I might even spring for popcorn.
 

kinda

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Id NEVER be nasty to someone... my silliness was mainly joking... I figured most people would get that.
Sooooooo, not true. Pipp has been terrorising me for at least 5 years now. It never ceases. Nobody feels my pain.

What did I ever do to you Pipp? I'm sorry for whatever harm I have ever caused you. Please, I come in peace.

(runs and hides) lol
 

kinda

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I'm otherwise spoken for so I won't be taking you. But if you decide to go, I'll be glad to pay for you and a date. I might even spring for popcorn.
Sometimes your jokes go to far Cameron, words hurt. If you throw in some ice cream bon bons, tin foil, and user i.d./password for Netflix, I will pretend to laugh at all your failed attempts of humor. lol
 

Cameron143

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Sometimes your jokes go to far Cameron, words hurt. If you throw in some ice cream bon bons, tin foil, and user i.d./password for Netflix, I will pretend to laugh at all your failed attempts of humor. lol
If Pipp has been terrorizing you it's because she is tired of you terrorizing me.
Also, it's two far, not to far.