What Makes A Persons Dateable/Non Dateable???
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I know a woman is dateable when.................................. she pulls out my chair for me when I go to sit down in a restaurant.
I know a woman is undateable when............................... I go to sit down in a restaurant and she quickly kicks out the chair from under me causing me to fall violently and badly damage my hips, and all she says is "You still have to pay for my dinner, Sir Fall-Alot!!!"
I still have bruises from that day (on my hips and on my heart!!!).
I know a woman is undateable when............................... I go to sit down in a restaurant and she quickly kicks out the chair from under me causing me to fall violently and badly damage my hips, and all she says is "You still have to pay for my dinner, Sir Fall-Alot!!!"
I still have bruises from that day (on my hips and on my heart!!!).
G
I think, if you really like a girl, you will like to know what she had for breakfast. You will be surprised but when God truly has you in love then the little things will seem big, and, not just big, but big-big, and, if that's not enough of a word for you, then, try one descype used in his post about crying seeing that George Bailey movie. Try 'wonderful,' that will be the word that describes her toothpaste, too. I know, I know, don't believe me, but, love a many say, 'That's not gonna happen to me,' and, when it does...................everything changes, just like for Flower, Thumper, and, of course, Bambi, too 
[video=youtube;hiptUShsnGs]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hiptUShsnGs[/video]
Yep, the mundane and and seemingly trite things, even the toothpaste brand (you'll want to switch her away from the paint-filler filled Colgate or whatever brand to your brand, Tom's of Maine, or some natural toothpaste ) of this girl will bring oodles of googles and inquisitive thoughts to your mind, you will lean in and want to learn more and more and as Billy Idol sings, more, more, more cuz yer twitterpated, thump-thump-thump and tap, tap, tap. That girl will change your rhythm, she will become much more than dateable, too, if you do, indeed, want to know that wonderful hairspray brand in her hair and that perfume with the essence of wild pansies and roses touched by the rustic scent of white-tailed deer. Careful on that last part, that rustic compliment there needs much care in saying, or, it will be a comment that shoots your relationship dead on the spot.
But, too, I better answer descype's thread question and not off the rocker it too much or he won't let me be in the Chiquita banana costume for the 2015 New Years Party we're going to (right, descype ) :
Girl is dateable if she's after God, first, that I can see when I ask her, she's willing to be herself in front of me and she is someone that I will quickly realize is a friend ,someone who genuinely cares about my life of what I quickly tell her of it.
Girl is undateable if I can't tell she's in love with God from asking her things of her life and if she just doesn't seem like she wants to be a good friend. I can't explain the latter so well, but, yes, the former is VERY important to me. Don't hide your heart so much that I can't see that God's in there when I'm looking (asking questions).
MOST Christian guys will 'look,' too, miladies, so, be found at that time 'those' guys do inquire. Pray about it all, I know, some like to really have the guy look. The Lord leads. Look to Him for all your answers of how you go about life, including opening up of who you are . What really matters is you are His, that matters more than anything else you will say about yourself--anything else-- to the Christian guy
[video=youtube;hiptUShsnGs]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hiptUShsnGs[/video]
Yep, the mundane and and seemingly trite things, even the toothpaste brand (you'll want to switch her away from the paint-filler filled Colgate or whatever brand to your brand, Tom's of Maine, or some natural toothpaste
) of this girl will bring oodles of googles and inquisitive thoughts to your mind, you will lean in and want to learn more and more and as Billy Idol sings, more, more, more cuz yer twitterpated, thump-thump-thump and tap, tap, tap. That girl will change your rhythm, she will become much more than dateable, too, if you do, indeed, want to know that wonderful hairspray brand in her hair and that perfume with the essence of wild pansies and roses touched by the rustic scent of white-tailed deer. Careful on that last part, that rustic compliment there needs much care in saying, or, it will be a comment that shoots your relationship dead on the spot. But, too, I better answer descype's thread question and not off the rocker it too much or he won't let me be in the Chiquita banana costume for the 2015 New Years Party we're going to (right, descype
) :Girl is dateable if she's after God, first, that I can see when I ask her, she's willing to be herself in front of me and she is someone that I will quickly realize is a friend ,someone who genuinely cares about my life of what I quickly tell her of it.
Girl is undateable if I can't tell she's in love with God from asking her things of her life and if she just doesn't seem like she wants to be a good friend. I can't explain the latter so well, but, yes, the former is VERY important to me. Don't hide your heart so much that I can't see that God's in there when I'm looking (asking questions).
MOST Christian guys will 'look,' too, miladies, so, be found at that time 'those' guys do inquire. Pray about it all, I know, some like to really have the guy look. The Lord leads. Look to Him for all your answers of how you go about life, including opening up of who you are . What really matters is you are His, that matters more than anything else you will say about yourself--anything else-- to the Christian guy
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"Don't sweat the small stuff"
Some people do and miss the forest for the trees.
I don't want to be with someone who wants to change my toothpaste. Its just toothpaste... not going to cause Alzheimers, let it go.
I just shot down a girl tonight, who basically asked me a thousand different ways, "Could two people who have almost nothing in common be a good relationship?"
Nope.
Communication is the most important quality I have to have in a relationship. And "What did you have for breakfast?" Could just be a lead up to, are you still hungry or have you tried this other stuff? whatever. Still not the meat and potatoes of conversations.
My answer to this question is usually something silly like "Food" or not food.
Good conversations give people glimpses into who each other are. (If there is an inside) I'm not going to stay up and talk to someone all night about how tall the grass is, or whether or not we should switch to a different brand of dogfood.
I would rather talk about how past mistakes were not meant to happen and why thinking so is incompatible with my worldview. A girl follows me and adds meaningful stuff there, I guarantee we will both be closer for it.
Some people do and miss the forest for the trees.
I don't want to be with someone who wants to change my toothpaste. Its just toothpaste... not going to cause Alzheimers, let it go.
I just shot down a girl tonight, who basically asked me a thousand different ways, "Could two people who have almost nothing in common be a good relationship?"
Nope.
Communication is the most important quality I have to have in a relationship. And "What did you have for breakfast?" Could just be a lead up to, are you still hungry or have you tried this other stuff? whatever. Still not the meat and potatoes of conversations.
My answer to this question is usually something silly like "Food" or not food.
Good conversations give people glimpses into who each other are. (If there is an inside) I'm not going to stay up and talk to someone all night about how tall the grass is, or whether or not we should switch to a different brand of dogfood.
I would rather talk about how past mistakes were not meant to happen and why thinking so is incompatible with my worldview. A girl follows me and adds meaningful stuff there, I guarantee we will both be closer for it.
B
A man is undateable .... if he never ever talks about God in any of our convos. of if he isn't a Christian
A man is undateable .... if all he ever talk is about himself and sound immature
A man is dateable ...if he loves God and respects human
A man is dateable ....if he is considerate of other people's feelings
A man is dateable... if he loves to smile and joke in a healthy manner
A man is undateable .... if all he ever talk is about himself and sound immature
A man is dateable ...if he loves God and respects human
A man is dateable ....if he is considerate of other people's feelings
A man is dateable... if he loves to smile and joke in a healthy manner
...99.9% ?
...and all along I thought Descyple was 100% imaginary, I mean, the real deal...
...and all along I thought Descyple was 100% imaginary, I mean, the real deal...
Having said that, I will now respond to momof3blessings in the next post below.......................
Momof3blessings, because of my badly bruised hip, I was not able to get up and walk out on my own. So the insensitive woman I was with had me picked up and physically thrown out of the restaurant by her tattoo-covered ex-convict ex-boyfriend whom she called to take her home after I refused to pay for her dinner because of how she treated me!!!
As I was laying helplessly on the street outside the restaurant, a bright glowing angel appeared and gently picked me up and said to me........................................
Okay, now I'm just going to far - lol.
No, momof3blessings, none of that "restaurant chair" story was true. But I appreciate your concern for me and my dignity (by the way, has anyone seen my dignity? I lost it when I started telling "imagined stories" on CC).
As I was laying helplessly on the street outside the restaurant, a bright glowing angel appeared and gently picked me up and said to me........................................
Okay, now I'm just going to far - lol.
No, momof3blessings, none of that "restaurant chair" story was true. But I appreciate your concern for me and my dignity (by the way, has anyone seen my dignity? I lost it when I started telling "imagined stories" on CC).
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