"When I was 13, I had my first love..." Seriously.... help?

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myoceanrat

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My friends said I was obsessed with him, a stalker. And I can't deny it. The horrible thing is I may never see him again.
You might be going, "Wait, hold on a minute! I don't get what you are talking about!" And yet some of you know EXACTLY what I am going for.
You see, there is this one boy that I like. He goes to church and I think he is a Christian, but I can't deny the fact that I like him a LOT. So we attended the same school when I was in 7th grade, but 4 months into the 1st semester I left. I missed him lot, but he had never even talked to me so he did not know that I liked him. Anyway, a year and a half went by before I went to youth group and I saw him again. My feelings for him were aroused, and I began to go to youth group every week just to see him. Then this big event called Future Quest came along and I followed him every day of it. They changed the youth group day to Tuesday instead of Friday, and when I went I saw that he wasn't there. I was disappointed, and I am worried that I may never see him again. I don't think that is such a bad thing to never see him again but still. I am heartbroken. I don't know what to do! My only contact with him if I were to contact him would be through two secondhand accounts, two friends of mine know him. I am stuck.... I even dreamed about him rescuing me once! >.<
 
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Shouryu

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Okay. Imagine me saying these things with a smile. Because I'm not saying them grouchily. I assure you.

1) You really oughtta be posting in the Teen forums. I don't browse the Teen forums (because...wait for it...I am not a teen), but you need to be discussing this stuff with your peers, and you're going to listen to them more than you're going to listen to us...because we're adults, and 13 year olds don't listen to adults.

2) REMEMBER THAT I'M SMILING AND NOT BEING GROUCHY.

3) That's not love. I know you think it is. It is not. And now you're going to get all mad at me for saying that, but in about 12 years, you'll look back and think hard and say, "Oh wow. That wasn't love. I guess that middle school teacher on that website wasn't a dumb, grouchy jerk after all."

Welcome to CC and Happy Independence Day, kiddo! If you came into my classroom, I would hit you on the head with an inflatable hammer to welcome you.
 
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zaoman32

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Boys are nothing but trouble at your age. Find yourself a good pet and you'll be better off.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Boys are grooooooss!
 
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Bluecomet

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#5
Just remember, JESUS was a boy too.
 

DuchessAimee

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Call me a jerk, but Ocean, I don't think you're 13. I think you're much older than that (and male) by the way you write. So! That being said, Sho is right. If you are a teen, you need to post in the teen forum. End of story.
 

Fenner

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Boys who needs them?
 

Fenner

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I liked this boy when I was 13, he came over we watched TV no one was home. My parents came home, my father said, no boys in the house. He never came to my house again.
 
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Jullianna

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You had a very wise dad. :)
 
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Ugly

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Boys are nothing but trouble at your age. Find yourself a good pet and you'll be better off.
According to Will Smith... girls of the world ain't nothing but trouble!
 
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Ugly

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Yeah, i'm with Aimee. Something doesn't add up with this post and your profile. You say you're 13, about to turn 14. But your thread title says 'when i was 13..' and you give a time frame of events that would have to make you older than 13. And you worry about people thinking you're gay because you're a female that wants a male friend? Then say you have no female friends. But talk about this guy you're obsessed with. I don't know, nothing you're saying makes any sense, fits into any time frame. I just don't believe this is a real post. Not to mention you don't sound 13. I'm not buying this thread or poster.
 
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Jullianna

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[video=youtube;JMrcnqKSbw8]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMrcnqKSbw8[/video]
 

Fenner

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Donny Osmond is still cute. Cabbage Patch kids are still scary.
 
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myoceanrat

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Ok but I actually am turning fourteen this month, July 10. I am telling the truth, basically this time frame has been in the past few years since 7th grade, I am going into 9th now. And thank you Shouryu I am new so I did not know where to post this.