When is it ok for a man to cry?

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When is it ok for a man to cry?

  • During a sad movie

    Votes: 5 10.4%
  • Birth of his child

    Votes: 8 16.7%
  • End of a romantic relationship

    Votes: 5 10.4%
  • When he's depressed or lonely

    Votes: 5 10.4%
  • Death of an acquaintance

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Death of a family member or friend

    Votes: 13 27.1%
  • Minor pain (paper cut, shaving injury)

    Votes: 3 6.3%
  • Moderate pain (gunshot/stab wound, broken limb)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Extreme pain (torture)

    Votes: 3 6.3%
  • Never

    Votes: 6 12.5%

  • Total voters
    48

Kathleen

Senior Member
Oct 13, 2009
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#42
moderate pain = gunshot lol
i would choose all except last one and minor injury ie. paper cut or shaving injury LOL
my dad always cries when he talks to people about his conversiton and the person who converted him.
Its a really sad story but great. :D
 
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kiwi_OT

Guest
#43
Anytime he bloody well pleases!! Crying does not mean he is not a man or any of that crap. In fact I think showing emotion like that makes a person more a man than the wuss who doesn't have the guts to show what he feels.
Thats right! (hahaha na na na you cant have him...)
 
Jan 8, 2009
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#45
You are less of a man if you cry. The release of tears in the tear duct results in a drop in testosterone and increase in female hormone. Excessive crying can lead to male PMS, manopause, and other such phenonemon. The breast tissues enlarge to accomodate the increase in production of fluid to support tear production, and the pitch of the voice increases by one or two pitches. Sperm production also decreases to support the inreased fluid production in the tear ducts to the point where you cannot have children.
And if you believe what I just said you'd believe anything.
 

Kathleen

Senior Member
Oct 13, 2009
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#46
You are less of a man if you cry. The release of tears in the tear duct results in a drop in testosterone and increase in female hormone. Excessive crying can lead to male PMS, manopause, and other such phenonemon. The breast tissues enlarge to accomodate the increase in production of fluid to support tear production, and the pitch of the voice increases by one or two pitches. Sperm production also decreases to support the inreased fluid production in the tear ducts to the point where you cannot have children.
And if you believe what I just said you'd believe anything.

I lol'd at that ^^
 
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Harley_Angel

Guest
#47
eating soy makes you less of a man...literally though...it really does increase your estrogen levels and can lead to breast enlargement and even cancer of the breast tissue. Men, you can use this excuse to get out of eating you gf's vegan soy products and NOT have to cry in front of her.
 
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wwjd_kilden

Guest
#48
Men... women... who cares. If one feels like crying, one should. If not, it usually just feels worse... I'd see it as a sing of trust if my bf/ man would cry in front of me
 
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dovey

Guest
#49
When he really hurt someone else and he knows it, when something amazingly beautiful is happening....when the spirit move him too....
 
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Tegelik

Guest
#50
Some of the answers are missing:
When his favorite football team loses.
When he runs out of beer.
When someone scratches his car.
When all the women on Earth disappear.
 
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Leilaii425

Guest
#51
Some of the answers are missing:
When his favorite football team loses.
When he runs out of beer.
When someone scratches his car.
When all the women on Earth disappear.



Of course a man would cry if all the women on earth dissapeared there would be no one to get him the beer
 
Jul 23, 2009
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#52
I cried just the other day while peeling onions.
 
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Harley_Angel

Guest
#53
Those must have been some pretty depressing onions.
 
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buckeyegirl700

Guest
#54
I feel it is ok in certain circumstances.
 
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Khorib2

Guest
#55
I fell into tears and nausea when my TV broke and was stuck on the 700 Club. It was horrible... and I wasn't even tempted to cry when I broke my nose.
 

pickles

Senior Member
Apr 20, 2009
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#56
When his heart needs to.
God bless, pickles
 
Jan 8, 2009
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#57
Is it OK to cry during watching old episodes of the wonder years?
 
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ChristopherMichael

Guest
#58
Only OK to cry if you're alone, I think. Any other time and people think you're a nancy, or it's an attention thing. That's not saying you can never cry, just that you should leave or cover it up or something. For the most part. There's always exceptions though, I guess.

Sound kinda harsh, but life's rough like that, I guess.

- Topher
 

pickles

Senior Member
Apr 20, 2009
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#59
My hubby cries when watching the groin hits on funniest vidios.
God bless, pickles
 
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sabella22

Guest
#60
well im not married.but yea iv never seen a guy cry before..only on tv lol..well i have seen a guy cry but thats cause of a family memeber died,or iv had friends cry well not cry but a couple of tears came out..