I think certain words for some, in certain contexts, are not offensive. But in Christian love, now that some know that others find certain words offensive, I think it would be more scriptural to use the other words in our vocabulary that aren't offensive.
Now I know at this point, some may get absurd and say something like, "Fine I think the word THE is offensive, now you can't say THE." This tactic may be used by some to blur the lines between what is truly a legit form of offensiveness and what isn't a legit form of offensiveness. If someone is tempted to stoop to this level of absurdity, please don't. For one, it's absurd. For another, I don't have the time to wrangle back and forth over my simple request to exercise Christian love by NOT using certain words you know others are finding offensive.
Thanks.