Why do christian woman prefer a non-christian husband?

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Yes of course we want men who read the bible and go to church with us.

But have you looked around the churches now a days? It is so hard to find responsible, interesting men that are God fearing now a days, honestly. The men that love Christ and are on fire for Him seem to be off working for Him somewhere and the ones that stayed home, often are bickering and hypocritical or not sold out for Christ.
Many seem boring, they are not culturally educated (at least here in the south) and ignorant of issues happening around us.

At least that has been my experience. And then you come across these secular men that have more love and compassion in their small fingers than any christian men we encounter at church. And it is no wonder that we hope we can "missionary Date" and that with prayer these wonderful men we meet that don't know Christ will find Him. Eventually.

That has been tempting personally many times, but not really. I'd rather be single then to date a secular person but - dating in the christian pool is painful.
 
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Heart_Melody said:
Yes of course we want men who read the bible and go to church with us.

But have you looked around the churches now a days? It is so hard to find responsible, interesting men that are God fearing now a days, honestly. The men that love Christ and are on fire for Him seem to be off working for Him somewhere and the ones that stayed home, often are bickering and hypocritical or not sold out for Christ.
Many seem boring, they are not culturally educated (at least here in the south) and ignorant of issues happening around us.

At least that has been my experience. And then you come across these secular men that have more love and compassion in their small fingers than any christian men we encounter at church. And it is no wonder that we hope we can "missionary Date" and that with prayer these wonderful men we meet that don't know Christ will find Him. Eventually.

That has been tempting personally many times, but not really. I'd rather be single then to date a secular person but - dating in the christian pool is painful.
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the problem is the bible. the bible tells christian males to take charge, to be the leader of the marriage. christian women have problem with this conservative way of style.
 
Tommy379

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jovanovic said:
the problem is the bible. the bible tells christian males to take charge, to be the leader of the marriage. christian women have problem with this conservative way of style.
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That's a load of bull crap.

I happen to have it on good authority..... women like a man to lead...... sometimes.
 
Magenta

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jovanovic said:
you claim islam is a violent religion. that makes you a troll.
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I have pointed out some of the verses in the Quran and other Islamic sources that prove false your fantasy that Islam is a religion of peace, which, among other falsehoods you have promoted, you claim allows homosexuals to practice their lifestyle unmolested. Instead of countering with facts or truth, you offer more lies and obfuscations, and attacks on the Bible and Jesus Christ, while you pretend to be a Christian.
 
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I am a Christian woman, I don't prefer a non-christian man for a spouse. I would long be married if I did or wanted an unbeliever for a husband.
And I would want to believe its same for all other christian women. The issue I think is, some get tired of waiting and no christian man showing up. They take the non-christian man who shows up as a last resort.
 
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The bible isn't the problem. I can't say i perfer christians nor non christians. I know christians and non christians who take or don't “take charge“
Also Woman on both sides of the rope. A woman can be free and still let the man be the man without being over conservative.
Marriage or relationships all in all take commitment of both sides. Not just the woman. God gave commandments to man and woman.

Also islam isn't even a religion. Its a political system hiding behind the term religion. Islam is violent just as Satanism is. Saying Islam isn't violent like saying sacrificing people isn't. You need to get out and see the world and things for what they are.
 
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jovanovic said:
there is no statistics for this stuff...

but from what i have seen its true...

this thread is not about me,,,its about the singelhood majority of christian males are living in....

i am very ugly man....no chance for me....

not trolling...
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So on other words you have no facts or proof. You're just filtering perceptions of the world through your own negative filter and claiming it as fact. Because from what I've seen what you claim is false.
So, again, you aren't stating a fact. You're stating an opinion based off of your limited scope and negative outlook.

And I noticed you ignored my question. How convenient.

A good troll would've had an answer of Some kind.

And I know you're a troll because your first post was so over the top to the point of ridiculous. And when you posted a pic claiming to be you there was not a Single aspect of that pic that reflected anything you claimed about your appearance. And the facial expression in that pic was not that of one beaten down and discouraged but rather a quite confident, almost arrogant look.
So, ultimately I'm not buying your story.
 
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jovanovic said:
you claim islam is a violent religion. that makes you a troll.
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Coming to a site that is well known to be in opposition to Islam then accusing the users of being trolls for voicing an already well known belief. More trollish behavior.
 
Mel85

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Not sure whether I should take the OP serious but this is the first I’ve heard of.
 
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Mel85 said:
Not sure whether I should take the OP serious but this is the first I’ve heard of.
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Don't take him seriously. He admitted himself that he has no facts or statistics that support what he said.
 
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jovanovic said:
you claim islam is a violent religion. that makes you a troll.
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Islam is a violent religion. Very few actually chose to follow Islam, most are forced fearing persecution and possibly death. You need to get your head out of the sand and start facing reality.
 
NotmebutHim

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Pipp said:
Why don't you come out and say whatever it is you really want to say here ?
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Well he already made clear on a different thread that he believes the Bible forbids boyfriend/girlfriend relationships.
 
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