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Hope I didn't sound like that's what I thought of your post. 
you were making a very valid observation. I just wanted to share that I personally haven't noticed the same trend in my own circle of Christians, but that doesn't make your observation any less valid. And yes, I can certainly see why you'd find that mindset frustrating!
you were making a very valid observation. I just wanted to share that I personally haven't noticed the same trend in my own circle of Christians, but that doesn't make your observation any less valid. And yes, I can certainly see why you'd find that mindset frustrating!
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Hope I didn't sound like that's what I thought of your post. you were making a very valid observation. I just wanted to share that I personally haven't noticed the same trend in my own circle of Christians, but that doesn't make your observation any less valid. And yes, I can certainly see why you'd find that mindset frustrating!
you were making a very valid observation. I just wanted to share that I personally haven't noticed the same trend in my own circle of Christians, but that doesn't make your observation any less valid. And yes, I can certainly see why you'd find that mindset frustrating!
I've hung out with far too many desperate people. Ain't nobody got time for that!
That's why, to answer my own question, I don't think having Christ-like characteristics is an attractive thing when looking for a person to date. I think I'd rather be single and strive to be christ-like daily than finding a girl who just wants me to be a Jesus follower on Sunday's. Actually, to be honest, it has cost me losing a girlfriend and friends. I just don't think I can be a between-the-alter-and-the-door christian. I don't have a desire to be "super spiritual"(lol) because I know I mess up and do more damage than good at times. But to quote what a pastor once said in a sermon, "Sometimes, being alone is better than being with people who do not appreciate your love..." .... I believe that goes for both dating and friendships.
If a person can believe that Jesus loved them so much that he died for them with all of their flaws, why is it so hard for people to believe that someone here on earth could do the same?(The first seems understandable, the second sounds insane.)
Ohhhhh, yeahhhh, we're humans.:/ lol He loves us despite our flaws. Christians should love the same, right? We make things more difficult than it should be.haha
Ohhhhh, yeahhhh, we're humans.:/ lol He loves us despite our flaws. Christians should love the same, right? We make things more difficult than it should be.haha
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I think it is because they feel the need to "measure up" to other women's ideas of a "great catch". Family, friends, etc. Unfortunately this has its roots in non-Christian women, and has infiltrated our entire culture nowadays. This I blame on feminism taken to its modern-day extreme. Once again, this is just my opinion, by experience.
