Why we still single?

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Siberian_Khatru

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I'm single because idk how to let the guy know I'm interested cuz i dont have dem skillzzzzz lol

Unless I straight out say "hey I like you!" Lol

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Try it some time. :)
 
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Mitspa

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I think sometimes we give the religious speech about how we see relationships...we can all be moved unless God causes us to stand in a position.
 

Mo0448

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I had a very good friend send me this video and it was a very interesting perspective. Let me know what yall think haha


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Looks like its not letting me set it...so it just looks like a creepy link...I promise it's not :) you guys trust me right :) :) :)
 
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Mitspa

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I had a very good friend send me this video and it was a very interesting perspective. Let me know what yall think haha


[video]https://video-lhr3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hvideo-xfp1/v/t42.1790-2/11849496_1169703896380063_1662517772_n.mp4?efg=eyJ ybHIiOjM2NSwicmxhIjo2MDQsInZlbmNvZGVfdGFnIjoicmVzX zQyNl9jcmZfMjNfbWFpbl8zLjBfc2QifQ%3D%3D&rl=365&vabr=203&oh=c1d62a03ffa49a5b6076f3fbc7faa6df&oe=55DA7294[/video]


Looks like its not letting me set it...so it just looks like a creepy link...I promise it's not :) you guys trust me right :) :) :)
Its a link to buy used cars...what you do for living Mo?
 

Mo0448

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Its a link to buy used cars...what you do for living Mo?
You know it's not Mitspa so don't you go start getting everyone to doubt me! haha

I'm a biochemist and not a used car salesman!
 
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I'm single because idk how to let the guy know I'm interested cuz i dont have dem skillzzzzz lol

Unless I straight out say "hey I like you!" Lol

:D
Oh, that's happened. I don't do it typically lol. But, I have done it a few times before.

JUST DOOOO ITTTTT.
 
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Mitspa

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You know it's not Mitspa so don't you go start getting everyone to doubt me! haha

I'm a biochemist and not a used car salesman!
biochemist....good work Mo
 

jsr1221

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I'm single because idk how to let the guy know I'm interested cuz i dont have dem skillzzzzz lol

Unless I straight out say "hey I like you!" Lol

:D
Some people may like the straight up bluntness.
 

melita916

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So what you guys are saying is........

Lol
 

jsr1221

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My experience is that men typically do NOT like straight up bluntness.
I like it when someone can be straight up honest. It's a whole lot easier... Because, I'm not good with the whole little hints thing. It's easy to misinpret things, so just "speak your mind" as they say.
 

BruceWayne

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I like it when someone can be straight up honest. It's a whole lot easier... Because, I'm not good with the whole little hints thing. It's easy to misinpret things, so just "speak your mind" as they say.
Agreed. I definitely prefer when people just say what they wanna say.

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I like it when someone can be straight up honest. It's a whole lot easier... Because, I'm not good with the whole little hints thing. It's easy to misinpret things, so just "speak your mind" as they say.
Yes dear, you like it when you've made yourself known and a woman is open with her reciprocal interest... but most men don't care for it when a woman opens that door first. Something about the chase or whatever.

Ask me how I know? I'll tell you that I'm terrible at 'the game'.
 
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Tintin

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My experience is that men typically do NOT like straight up bluntness.
Blunt, but kind is best. Beating around the bush doesn't serve anyone well.
 

jsr1221

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Yes dear, you like it when you've made yourself known and a woman is open with her reciprocal interest... but most men don't care for it when a woman opens that door first. Something about the chase or whatever.

Ask me how I know? I'll tell you that I'm terrible at 'the game'.
Do we really need the chase, though? If two people really trust and love the Lord with all their heart? Shouldn't He bring the two people together, instead of one "chasing" the other? For the man should have to find God first because the woman is so in Him. That's the only chase should be happening... In my opinion.