Pornography, Sexual Immorality, and Society

[xino]

watch this:
demon removed by Jesus - YouTube

I hope it helps you, this video helped me!
I made a testimony of how Jesus cured my addiction. here:
http://christianchat.com/testimonies/41816-back-again-got-rid-addiction.html

Basically we don't know what we are dealing with and that is why we fall into temptation.
Trust me, I've prayed to Jesus and asked him to forgive me of this sin and give me more of his strength to over come this sin. Still nothing, I just have to kept fighting it.

Then I watched the video and knew what I was dealing with, got on my knees begging God to take this addiction from me, I've seen the truth and what I'm dealing with.
From that moment Jesus lifted my curse.

Please keep praying and KEEP fighting the temptation, Jesus loves you and will listen.
And i believe the reason why Jesus was waiting for the moment to cure me is that.
Lately I was getting influenced with dating sites, being lonely and suggestion from people around me.
So I started using dating sites, there was one woman that I was in contact with and I started having sexual thoughts in my heart which was weird of me. Because I really don't see myself having sex before marriage, as I want to obey God's words.

So things didn't work out with her, and I got in touch with another but she likes to text message. Everytime I txt her, I'm wasting money credit but it's fine for her because she's on credit. I was trying to take her seriously because she's the one that came to me first, being interested in me. Which I respected.
So when Jesus cured my addiction. I had two choices-
*get rid of her and focus on Jesus
*get in touch with her and see where things go to.

I told her I've just had a life changing experience and i will be following Jesus more than I did. She gave a surprise reply. I told her I will delete all my dating profile, told her how to contact me. In the end she didn't contact me.
As you can see how the devil uses people and the world to draw you away from God or make you fall in temptation.


So glad I dropped her because I've been in closed connection with Jesus ever since. If I want a woman, she HAS to believe in Jesus or a Christian.

please keep fighting, trust in Jesus and have faith and hope because he will cure you.

 

[Ugly]

Check out the site XXXChurch.com Its a ministry revolving around porn and sex addictions. Good place to start.

 

[Jomaty]

Hi, I honestly have nowhere to start, I've got a story that would be extremely long in a post.

I guess long story short without including lots of random stuff about my life is that I cannot stop looking at porn. I try. Very hard. I Googled ways to stop and I found a site of where some Christian had a problem as well, and paid himself to stop viewing pornography. I tried.. Made it just over two weeks and then cracked. Ever since it's been occasional. I need to stop. I know that when I view it that it is wrong, and that God wouldn't appreciate it. Sometimes I honestly feel like I can cry when I am done.. Because I feel so guilty and don't know what to do about it..

I have a very hard time picking up the Bible. I need to become a better Christian, porn isn't the only thing blocking my relationship with Christ. I went to camp in '09 and I could have never felt as close to God as I did that night, the topic was on fathers and regardless of having one or not, God will fill that emptiness and move on with your life knowing that I have and always have had a father, who loves me and wants the best for me regardless of wether I personally know them or not.

I've been telling myself for a while that I need to find a Christian chatroom or something that I could get into to talk about my problem and to fix it and finally I am getting here and doing it.

Viewing porn is the biggest waste of time, I can spend anywhere from 20-90 minutes viewing it but I can't stop. I do what I can to try to go as long as I can to not watch it but I just honestly don't know anything. I know that I've said 'I don't know' a lot in this post but I really don't know what to do or say. I just know that I need to break this addiction and leave it far behind.

I am very happy to see a post like this on here, because now I know that I am not the only one struggling with it and that there are some Christians who still struggle with it. I need some advice from you all on this topic and what I can do to leave it all behind and get back to where I use to be with God and everything else.

Please let me know what I can do to move on and if you can help me.

 

[permen]

Hi, I honestly have nowhere to start, I've got a story that would be extremely long in a post.

I guess long story short without including lots of random stuff about my life is that I cannot stop looking at porn. I try. Very hard. I Googled ways to stop and I found a site of where some Christian had a problem as well, and paid himself to stop viewing pornography. I tried.. Made it just over two weeks and then cracked. Ever since it's been occasional. I need to stop. I know that when I view it that it is wrong, and that God wouldn't appreciate it. Sometimes I honestly feel like I can cry when I am done.. Because I feel so guilty and don't know what to do about it..

I have a very hard time picking up the Bible. I need to become a better Christian, porn isn't the only thing blocking my relationship with Christ. I went to camp in '09 and I could have never felt as close to God as I did that night, the topic was on fathers and regardless of having one or not, God will fill that emptiness and move on with your life knowing that I have and always have had a father, who loves me and wants the best for me regardless of wether I personally know them or not.

I've been telling myself for a while that I need to find a Christian chatroom or something that I could get into to talk about my problem and to fix it and finally I am getting here and doing it.

Viewing porn is the biggest waste of time, I can spend anywhere from 20-90 minutes viewing it but I can't stop. I do what I can to try to go as long as I can to not watch it but I just honestly don't know anything. I know that I've said 'I don't know' a lot in this post but I really don't know what to do or say. I just know that I need to break this addiction and leave it far behind.

I am very happy to see a post like this on here, because now I know that I am not the only one struggling with it and that there are some Christians who still struggle with it. I need some advice from you all on this topic and what I can do to leave it all behind and get back to where I use to be with God and everything else.

Please let me know what I can do to move on and if you can help me.

I used to be a porn addict like you too, but I've stopped a long time ago.
If you ask me how to stop it.. well I'd say you have to change your MINDSET first. That's the first thing you need to do. Changing your mindset is like, Imagine like what if those naked girls were your sisters? or your girlfriend? or your loved ones? are you still gonna watch it?
and start thinking about what is the advantage of watching porn? you can't get nothing from it, right? it only makes your body weak and weaker and it makes you feel like a BIG loser, plus it breaks your relationship with God, He will look at you as a sinner not as his son.

My advices :
Never get Idle, keep yourself busy by doing something positive like reading books, playing basketball, cleaning up your room or something that's positive (gaming is not included), and start thinking about the future (your dreams) and try to make your dreams come true. Always pray in the morning before you move from bed, ask God for his guidance..


God can't change you if you don't want to change yourself.
I know changing your mindset it's not that easy, but it is NOT impossible too

Hope this helps God bless you.

 

[AdorableNoel]

I'm just going to put myself on 'blast' lol.

Umm, so.
I had dealt with impure thoughts and watching... "porn" for a long time. I think.. well most people have. Most kids in america have seen porn by the age of 9 (thats 4th grade yall).. that is so sad. And so many kids.. meaning under 18 have become addicted to it. For a long time, like a lot of guys view girls, i had viewed guys in a bad way. I already had this dislike for guys for a long time, so it was easy for me to think so badly of them. I know i'm not alone when i say this either.
The reason I'm finally confessing this to.. whoever is reading.. well
Today i put all of that behind me.. for good.
So many times i've "repented" "oh lord oh lord im so sorry" and i genuinely was.. we've all been there haha. but i kept being pulled back to the same old thoughts. Never believe youre too strong to be tempted.. you'll just make yourself weaker. And that is exactly what i would do.
Today i went to the alter because i need to "put my face against the wall" (2 kings 20:1-10)
I'm done with anything that has to do with that. And i'm not embarressed.
The last time i had read this thread/post thingy.. i felt really uncomfortable and didnt want to say anything.. and there are probably a lot more people who have read this thingy and felt the same.

so yeah.. there it goes.. plain and simple. I committed adultery in my heart a lot. Now with God as my witness, that won't happen anymore.

I'll pray for anyone dealing with impurity (you can message me, dont be shy )
God Bless !! <3

 

[x_hertje_X]

gosh, *sighs*

this is a very good idea. some space to open up and break the devils power..
and ever since that creates freedom, I figured it might just be a good idea to open up as well.

this might sound strange, but I have problems with masturbation because I used to suffer from anorexia.
the thought about the amount of calories that are burned trough the movement and orgasm haunts me every night,
telling me what I should not have eaten.. but can still 'undo' by burning those calories.

it's all that's left of the eating disorder.. and all that's left of addictions concerning sexual matters,
but this just seems so hard to get rid of.

 

[Scarlette18]

Hi, all

I suffer with a pornography addiction. I signed up to this chatroom to be accountable with my addiction, as I felt called by God to do so. Please and advice with how to combat this problem!

 

[Scarlette18]

Hi all,

I need some serious advice and help to overcome my pornography addiction, it started on the internet and I study externally so I am on there all the time any ideas as to what to do?

 

[MysticRain]

There are lots of things you can do. Text me if you ever see me on and we'll talk, ok?

Hi all,

I need some serious advice and help to overcome my pornography addiction, it started on the internet and I study externally so I am on there all the time any ideas as to what to do?