Ageism at CC

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wolfywolfs

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i misinterprets the word theorys? no offense, but: LOL :D
You have just moaned about being treated differently because of your Age i gave you some friendly advice and you decide to just throw it in my face.

I am going on a whim and say that your idea of theorys is that a theory can be aboustly anything you can come up with, a theory like if you keep droping a stone it will eventully fly into a sky. No this is not a theroy why is it not a theroy, why because it defies the laws of gravity and is there for not a theroy.

A theory needs to work before it becomes theroy which I why I advised to look it up.

And honestly before you start moaning about other look at yourself first because your just as bad as that guy in the chatrooms
 
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wolfywolfs

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I think he has something in that experiences in life and the choices we make can accelerate the process of maturation.

There are some sixth graders who have more sense than a person who has had forty years to live.
I always thought I was more mature than others when I was at school due to a bad child hood I had but I kept a child side to myself and still keep it now can't be mature all the time sometimes you have to let go and fall to live
 
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episcopotic

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I think he has something in that experiences in life and the choices we make can accelerate the process of maturation. There are some sixth graders who have more sense than a person who has had forty years to live.
I doubt you'll find any argument there. My question concerns the apparent idea that if you haven't been in Iraq and/or Afghanistan or some other military engagement, you haven't served your country. From what I've observed, too, it doesn't tend to make people especially more mature than those who took other paths.
 

Justcuz

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You have just moaned about being treated differently because of your Age i gave you some friendly advice and you decide to just throw it in my face.

I am going on a whim and say that your idea of theorys is that a theory can be aboustly anything you can come up with, a theory like if you keep droping a stone it will eventully fly into a sky. No this is not a theroy why is it not a theroy, why because it defies the laws of gravity and is there for not a theroy.

A theory needs to work before it becomes theroy which I why I advised to look it up.

And honestly before you start moaning about other look at yourself first because your just as bad as that guy in the chatrooms
I did study the logic behind scientific theories, so i know full well what a theory is.
I only found it bit funny that you accused me of not knowing what theories are,
while you yourself even spelled the word 'theories' wrong.

No offense.
 
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wolfywolfs

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I did study the logic behind scientific theories, so i know full well what a theory is.
I only found it bit funny that you accused me of not knowing what theories are,
while you yourself even spelled the word 'theories' wrong.

No offense.
And I told you on another post im dislexic you Have no respect which is proberly why people talk down to you
 

Justcuz

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And I told you on another post im dislexic you Have no respect which is proberly why people talk down to you
Yea ok, i talk to a lot of people here, so it must have slipped my mind, sorry.

I was hesitant to say how funny your remark about "theorys' said in context was, that's how much respect i have for people.
Sometimes plain typos can be very funny, and cheap jokes are too easy to make.

You clearly didnt understand my first response though,
made some other assumption about me not being to understand the concept of scientic theories, so i had to clarify my first comment.
In a way it is you that has no respect for me: you make all kinds of assumptions while you don't know me at all.

Shall we move on from this please? Thank you.
 
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wolfywolfs

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Yea ok, i talk to a lot of people here, so it must have slipped my mind, sorry.

I was hesitant to say how funny your remark about "theorys' said in context was, that's how much respect i have for people.
Sometimes plain typos can be very funny, and cheap jokes are too easy to make.

You clearly didnt understand my first response though,
made some other assumption about me not being to understand the concept of scientic theories, so i had to clarify my first comment.
In a way it is you that has no respect for me: you make all kinds of assumptions while you don't know me at all.

Shall we move on from this please? Thank you.
Well no because I belive you did the same to me on another post not nice is it and if you do understand scientific theory you could of just said that instead off makeung cheap jokes
 

Elizabeth619

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Actually i was there to witness much of this 'discussion'. The 'scientist' in question was quite rude. His tone was not simply 'oh, you're still young, you'll get it one day', but was much more condescending and insulting. As i was watching i was quite irritated with this 'mans' attitude and tone. But he does this often. I see him regularly in the rooms, seeming to seek out any chance to get into a 'debate' then passing people arguments off with a dismissive, disrespectful air of how he talks to people.
Why don't people notify me when these people are in chat? I would run circles around people like that.
 
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Skybound

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Matthew 5:11
"Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me." People will tell you you are wrong. It happens in life. God teaches us to turn the other cheek.

It sounds like this individual is treating you poorly because you disagree with him. Both of you have the right to believe what you like and to cross that boundary is disrespectful from the start. Now one thread and several miscalculated posts later, I find it hard to spot ageism here.

Ageism is a discrimination because there is no way to measure experience and maturity, and likely never will be. When you're a victim of ageism, prove them wrong by showing maturity and that you can rise above your accusers with compassion and forgiveness.
 

Justcuz

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Well no because I belive you did the same to me on another post not nice is it and if you do understand scientific theory you could of just said that instead off makeung cheap jokes

That was before you said you were dyslectic.

Anyway... let's move on...
 
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wolfywolfs

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i apologized so yes
You miss understand I asked you if you think its ok to laugh at someone because they couldn't spell aslong as you have no knowledge of there disabilities or past
 

Justcuz

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I think you should be able to take a joke if you make a typo or just dont care how a word is spelled. I've explained myself enough, i think, so i will just leave it at that.
 

IDEAtor

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JustCuz, I like that you ask lots of questions in different threads. Your comments are equally interesting to read.
I am glad that you are open to and are sharing Christ with people. Keep it up. It amazes me that you know, at least, 2 languages. Bravo.
Regarding ageism, it is interesting that your original post talks about an older person making a comment about your younger age.
I have grown up working with kids and I am well aware of the wisdom that can come from those who are younger, so I understand how dismissing someone's ideas due to age frustrates you. If this is true, then I am not be surprised that you are smarter/wiser in different areas than me. ;)
But, speaking of age, there are multiple ways to view "age" out there: 1)biological 2)intellectual 3)experiental 4) etc, etc, etc.

In biological terms, you are younger than most of the CC community. Intellectually, if you can read and write in two languages, you are more advanced than a lot of the world...in knowing languages (and probably information). As for your level of experience, you might be well-read in science, but the man that was rude to you might be working hands-on in a field that helps make your life easier; whereas you are more versed in, say, traveling the globe.
My point is that ageism online is hard to measure, because there are other factors involved. I know you know this is true, but I am highlighting something here. The man that you know to be older, crankier, and maybe not as smart as you--has other factors in his life, too. Chances are he is not aware of them all; especially if he is not serving Jesus.

Look at me: I am 26 and never-married. I love different languages, but I only speak english.
I grew up in a town that had the KKK, yet I was the only white dude in an all-black gospel choir.
I have driven many hours for a foodbank, a van ministry, and for college and back multiple times.
But, did you know, I hate driving with a passion! I taught drama, lived with homeless people, and
have gone to ER rooms just to sit and encourage people. oh, last I knew, I have a handwriting level of a 3rd grader.

You see? There is more to you, yes, but also to everyone else.

We can say something happens because of a quality, circumstance, or flaw.
But the reality is there is a unique mixture of it all, which makes you--you.

As for the debate on Big Bang and other theories, you can know that God did it and not know, really, how.
But, as you are young ;) , keep on building a resume in the way of truth.
Maybe, one day, you will teach me something.

...I'm kidding. You already have.
 
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Justcuz

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Thank you IDEAtor! :)
 

Elizabeth619

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I think you should be able to take a joke if you make a typo or just dont care how a word is spelled. I've explained myself enough, i think, so i will just leave it at that.
I make many typos, and grammatical errors I do not think it is even a good argument to criticize someone's typing. That shows that someone is just trying to pick a fight.

Since you did single someone out about spelling "theorys" lets look at this sentence here in quotations... and play a game.

How many grammatical errors can we find?????
 

Justcuz

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I make many typos, and grammatical errors I do not think it is even a good argument to criticize someone's typing. That shows that someone is just trying to pick a fight.

Since you did single someone out about spelling "theorys" lets look at this sentence here in quotations... and play a game.

How many grammatical errors can we find?????
I didn't single anybody out, and it was never my intention to pick a fight. Whatever gave you that idea? Some people here are way too serious and just can't take a simple joke. People make jokes about my spelling in the Forum all the time. Since english isn't my native language i could get the feeling i am being made fun of, and get all worked up about it. I don't take a bit of teasing that seriously though, it's all in the game.
 

Elizabeth619

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I didn't single anybody out, and it was never my intention to pick a fight. Whatever gave you that idea? Some people here are way too serious and just can't take a simple joke. People make jokes about my spelling in the Forum all the time. Since english isn't my native language i could get the feeling i am being made fun of, and get all worked up about it. I don't take a bit of teasing that seriously though, it's all in the game.
Actually, people don't really talk about others English or their typing. People are here from all over the world, and most of us understand and respect that not everyone is fluent in English.
I'm from the South. Down here we don't talk like the rest of the Americans........ ;)
We have a whole different kinda language down here.
 
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wolfywolfs

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Actually, people don't really talk about others English or their typing. People are here from all over the world, and most of us understand and respect that not everyone is fluent in English.
I'm from the South. Down here we don't talk like the rest of the Americans........ ;)
We have a whole different kinda language down here.
honestly don't bother with him if he's having a go at me let it just be me wouldn't want you getting involved