I am living in israel for like 12 years and i dont have MANY friends... i mean, i do have friends but i dont hang out with them. i dont blame THEM but i just dont hang out with them. Now living in israel is horrible for me, it's boring and no one really sees you as a normal person if you dont wear shorts and wear a bucket of makeup (most of the people). i feel pretty lonely sometimes and besides that, sometimes i just get depressed for no reason and i become angry and irritated. I am seriously getting bored of my life... this is stupid, but... help? somehow...
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Hey XrisSimo I understand how you feel. But you must not give up and don't let this keep you down. The thing you have to remember is that you must love yourself first then other people will love you. Now just like you I have friends but I don't hang out with them a lot. But we must remember if they are our true friends then they will always be there for you. So just keep your head up and know that you will make it through.
C
I know what you mean. I don't have many friends either, a small group that I sometimes hang out with but not often. It's not fun having no one to hang out with and being alone. I get depressed too at times since it seems I will always be alone and isolated. I'm not sure what makes you angry and irritated. For me I get frustrated with how quiet I am and how afraid I am to talk to people. I get what you mean when you say your getting bored with your life. I don't have people to hang out with, no car to drive anywhere, and not too much to do. So, I find myself on the internet and video games a lot. Don't think it's stupid at all. I've been and still am in a similar (or maybe the same) position as you. Here are a few suggestions though...
I'm doing a sport to stay social and maybe make some friends. As well as getting a job to make some money and be around people. On top of that, I may get bass lessons and join my fire department just so I'm extra busy and around people to avoid depression.
So, that basically means find ways to get involved that your comfortable with. I'm praying for you too.
P.S - If your lonely and need someone to chat with, I'm always up for a chat. Mainly because I have no one to hang out with either.
Chilaha
I'm doing a sport to stay social and maybe make some friends. As well as getting a job to make some money and be around people. On top of that, I may get bass lessons and join my fire department just so I'm extra busy and around people to avoid depression.
So, that basically means find ways to get involved that your comfortable with. I'm praying for you too.
P.S - If your lonely and need someone to chat with, I'm always up for a chat. Mainly because I have no one to hang out with either.
Chilaha
X
why do you worry about how the world act?
Jesus said we should depart from this world and live our life holy, because the Kingdom of God and Holy Spirit are not from this world but from him.
that is the way it is and the devil does tempt us. We may feel jealous/envy that these people can go and get drunk, clubbing, go to gigs and festival, go to bar, go to party etc.
In the end they are wandering in darkness and heading to the path of destruction.
You need to depart from them, stay faithful and follow god.
Jesus said pick up your cross and bible and follow him, deny yourself and put him follow even if you have to do it public.
Fight the temptation, if you are with God, you should be happy, why should you feel depress?
do not worry about this world, or the world's concern will worry you.
if you want friends, look for Christian friends instead because Christians worship God, God is love therefore Christian show love to their neighbours.
As you can see, the world do not show you love by the way you dress, and they want you to be like them- dressing like a hoe and with make up.
Get a christian penpal friend, on ChristianPenPal.com or search for Christians on Facebook.
Jesus said we should depart from this world and live our life holy, because the Kingdom of God and Holy Spirit are not from this world but from him.
that is the way it is and the devil does tempt us. We may feel jealous/envy that these people can go and get drunk, clubbing, go to gigs and festival, go to bar, go to party etc.
In the end they are wandering in darkness and heading to the path of destruction.
You need to depart from them, stay faithful and follow god.
Jesus said pick up your cross and bible and follow him, deny yourself and put him follow even if you have to do it public.
Fight the temptation, if you are with God, you should be happy, why should you feel depress?
do not worry about this world, or the world's concern will worry you.
if you want friends, look for Christian friends instead because Christians worship God, God is love therefore Christian show love to their neighbours.
As you can see, the world do not show you love by the way you dress, and they want you to be like them- dressing like a hoe and with make up.
Get a christian penpal friend, on ChristianPenPal.com or search for Christians on Facebook.
P
Hey I know how you feel, but I have a good message for you stop feeling low but instead fight the good fight of having faith in God, he is going to send to you someone special. Don't give up sister and always remeber; A strong man stand up for himself, a stronger man stands up for others and the strongest man stood up with God.
U
Xris hi
Sure, the situation doesn't sound great, and may be part of how you feel. But also remember you're a teen in the midst of wild hormones. They can make you irritable, unhappy, depressed, dissatisfied with your life, or situation. So bear that in mind.
I know its not quite the same, but try to utilize CC for friendships as well. I am not able to get out much myself, currently and rely on CC friends for friendship for now. Many times its helped me.
Sure, the situation doesn't sound great, and may be part of how you feel. But also remember you're a teen in the midst of wild hormones. They can make you irritable, unhappy, depressed, dissatisfied with your life, or situation. So bear that in mind.
I know its not quite the same, but try to utilize CC for friendships as well. I am not able to get out much myself, currently and rely on CC friends for friendship for now. Many times its helped me.