Encouragement!!! :)

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become_the_generation

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Heres somethign that God had me write during my devos yesterday! It encouraged me and I hope that it does the same for you! :)

Your my child in the dark times, when everything is breaking down. You are my love, when you slip away, and give the world your crown. You can fall as far as you can, as far as you will, but my love for you will never grow still. I will always be seeking you, I want your heart, I need your all, not just one part. Why do you do this, turn your back when it hurts, when it doesnt make sense, when you feel so undeserved. I promise you, ive never left you, and I will never leave you to walk alone. I am yours. Please just trust me with your all. I love you as my own.

God Bless!!! :D
 
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I_Will_Only_Be_Me

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Thank you so much. I had made a very important friend last year, and I believed in her. Until she started accusing me of ignoring her, and started cutting and was always depressed. I figured it was just a phase so I stuck with her. But, now, i have 4 chinese exchange students living in my home and before i had told her she could come over while they were here. Things changed since my house is so cramped now, and I told her she couldn't come. She flipped off at me and really hit a few soft spots, texting me hurtful things and posting trash about me on instagram (Not using my name), and telling people I did something wrong. Now, she just wants to say sorry and forget all about it, but I dont think I can this time. I dont think things will ever be the same between us again. I trusted and respected her, and now she is saying that she lost trust and resoect from me. (exact words). I cant forget this. She hurt me so much. Any ideas on what I should do? That would be appreciated, thanks. :)
 
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Lucy68

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I_Will_Only_Be_Me said:
Thank you so much. I had made a very important friend last year, and I believed in her. Until she started accusing me of ignoring her, and started cutting and was always depressed. I figured it was just a phase so I stuck with her. But, now, i have 4 chinese exchange students living in my home and before i had told her she could come over while they were here. Things changed since my house is so cramped now, and I told her she couldn't come. She flipped off at me and really hit a few soft spots, texting me hurtful things and posting trash about me on instagram (Not using my name), and telling people I did something wrong. Now, she just wants to say sorry and forget all about it, but I dont think I can this time. I dont think things will ever be the same between us again. I trusted and respected her, and now she is saying that she lost trust and resoect from me. (exact words). I cant forget this. She hurt me so much. Any ideas on what I should do? That would be appreciated, thanks. :)
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All relationships hit rough spots :) .

It is hard to forgive but Jesus tells us to forgive others like He has forgiven us....

I think you should give her another chance and talk to her calmly about the specific things that hurt your friendship. Also, look at your own actions and words....did something come out in anger?

Even if you don't want to interact with her anymore, it would be an act of maturity to reconcile your differences. Part on friendly terms. Then you'll feel good about doing the right thing and won't have nasty regrets to carry around :) .
 
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