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MonicaLopez

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i fell worthless to the world and i feel like dying.. i need help to! guys, i keep getting attacked by the enemy and he is telling me " why live, kill your self. you are worthless. nobody loves you" i just need prayer... please.! and i need advise
 
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redhead1786

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Stay strong. No one is unimportant. ESPECIALLY in God's eyes. The 'enemy' is only telling you those things so they feel better about themselves. Don't believe a word that ANYONE has to say about you. I'll be praying for you so hard, and I hope you just see that you need to stay with us, please. Stand up to whoever is getting you down. Never give up.
God wants to see you in his kingdom someday, but that day is not anytime soon. Your own life is at stake, but you have to keep going. God never sends you a challenge you can't look straight in the face and conquer.
Stay beautiful, stay strong, stay irreplaceable. We love you and will support you all the way. I'll be praying for you tonight and every night. God bless.
 
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I feel the same way everyday. Remember, there is a God who is bigger than those voices.
 
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redhead1786

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* correction, I meant to say don't believe a BAD word anyone has to say about you.
 
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MonicaLopez

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thank you :/ it makes me feel a little better. :)
 
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Colt

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Alright, not that I know depression but I know the 'cut yourself' kind of anger, emotions you've got to hold on to are love and joy, even if it's for an inanimate object just get the bad thoughts out. Once you're feeling calm you can connect to God in a positive way he can talk to you about this because no one here can tell you your life or it's value but God.

Keep Calm
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Talk To
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HannahColleen

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Trust me you are not worthless, I don't know you or anything, but one thing I do know is God NEVER make mistakes. I know what it feels to feel worthless, one of the worst feelings ever, but you're not worthless, just another one of Satan's lies that so many of us believe, God placed you here for a reason, stick around so you can find out why. :)
 
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guymanuel

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Monica, if I may say a few words to you. FIrst, you are LOVED MUCH, the enemy is a liar. I would tell you though that you are in the best place in your life right now. When a person comes to a place where they feel as you do, worthless, that is the place where The Lord can use you the most. You see, now you come to a place where it is not about you, but how God can use you to give Life and Life abundantly to others. Jesus never came to earth to gratify HIMSELF, but to die for others in giving HIS LIFE for Others. Now, if you are a believer, HE, that same SPIRIT living in you should be doing the same. I mean really going out to people and giving them this ABUNDANT LIFE. Not praying for them but MINISTERING to them this LIFE. Get involved in a church ministry of OUTREACH TO HURTING people as yourself. Go and heal the sick, cast out devils and raise the dead. Let Christ come out of you unto others. Let not fear nor doubt keep you from LOVING the unloved. Go to the lost teens, the forgotten elderly, the suicidal men and women who are dead to Christ and bring them Christ and HOPE. GO, GO, GO and lety no one tell you otherwise. Do what Jesus did as He is in you. And if no one else will go with you, then go alone and others will joine you. YOU DO HAVE PURPOSE but you must go fulfill it. Do not wait, but go today. LOVE SOMEONE to LIFE. GIVE THEM YOUR LIFE. Feed the hungry peanut butter sandwiches, visit the sick in hospitals and heal them. Visit the prisoners of whom others foresaken and give them HOPE in CHRIST. JESUS is in you CRYING out "LET ME OUT of you", and GO,GO,GO and see the JOY overtake you as you do so. YOU HAVE MUCH TO GIVE, and HIS NAME IS JESUS. Find a sick person and just go lay hands on them and love them and say be healed in Jesus Name, and watch in amazement as YOU, Monica will be used by GOD to bring LIFE to people. Satan would lie to you and tell you have nothing to give. But you have your LIFE TO GIVE and that LIFE is made upm of JESUS. GO,GO,GO and wait not.
 
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I pray everyday that God gives me strength to cope with the challenges in life. You are feeling negative about yourself , and lost confidence but he is beside you and made all of us special and unique people. Do not give up and give yourself good thought every day. God Bless.....
 
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Strong1

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The enemy of our souls is here to do three things, and three things only....to KILL, STEAL, and DESTROY.
Christ came that we might have LIFE, and have it more ABUNDANTLY. (John 10:10)
You must allow your spirit to understand what this means. Not head knowledge. Spirit knowledge.
If you end your life, Satan wins. Then you join him where no man belongs, because He takes great pleasure in ruining our lives to the extent of, causing us to "miss the mark" where our relationship with God is concerned.

What good would that do? On the other hand, your life must resemble something quite threatening to Satan, if He is telling you to take it away yourself..........imagine what's in store for you, with God that the devil would so distract you in this manner?

Find Peace in Christ. He is your Hope.
 
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Aqua_Girl09

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i get like that often. crying when no one is watching and just wishing something would end me cause i'm too much of a coward to do it myself.

I remind myself that eventually the feeling WILL pass. its going to go away. you just have to keep moving. one foot in front of the other until you remember those reasons you wanna keep going.

for me, i just had to stop thinking about my future so much and enjoy what i had right now (i know its totally the opposite of what most ppl think)

You've got two good legs, just keep moving.use em.
 
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Brandon777

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Don't. You're life is worth what you are to God. Offer me a gold nugget that you can barely carry and I'll say I'd rather see you well. That's having faith in your worth. But what God has is knowledge of your worth, and He loves you many times more than I do.

This is who you are: "But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light." 1 Peter 2:9 I pray for you.
 
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OP, just hang around and watch how this story all pans out.
I don't think you want to miss it. I think it's going to be the greatest mind blowing ending that man has never considered.
Ask the Father to be a part of it.
I will pray for peace and the Set Apart Spirit in your life because I've been there too!
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Jesus loves you so much He died for you

Did you ever try to literally talk back to those thoughts? If not, try it, but make sure to do it not by your power, but by God.
Remind the devil that he is a liar and that you belong to God. Call upon the name of Jesus and ask Him to shield you from the ongoing attack.
 
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i fell worthless to the world and i feel like dying.. i need help to! guys, i keep getting attacked by the enemy and he is telling me " why live, kill your self. you are worthless. nobody loves you" i just need prayer... please.! and i need advise
Please don't do it, Monica. I know how you feel and I know that sometimes no words can make you feel better. When I feel that way I silently ask the Lord over and over "Please help me...please help me." Just sit silently for awhile and feel the troubles in your heart while asking the Lord, "please help me" for as long as you need to and attend mass if you can.

Remind yourself that there is nothing impossible or too hard for God. Ask for your soul to be filled with peace. We are all worth much in the eyes of God, even the poorest or most hardened sinner. He won't forsake you. He promises us that.

God bless you. I will pray for you.

gabriel
 
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Lucy68

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Immerse yourself in God's Word. Read some scriptures out loud. Pray for the Holy Spirit to lead you into the paths of righteousness.

This really does work :).

Praying for strength, peace, and guidance for you, sweetie....be strong :)
 
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MonicaLopez

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thank you all for the many things you have said. You know, i am not going to do it. i've talked it out to many people and they all said the say thing. "you are worth something. Don't let the devil win. & when i think about it, If i would have done something stupid. I wouldn't be here and i would have given the devil what he wanted and i don't want that! when i am only am so vulnerable i yell it not just say it.. i yell help me god please!!! take me and protect me. and you know , its nice to get some body else's advice. I am not perfect but with a lot of prayer and worship i can do anything :) so i just want to say. thank you sooooo much for understanding and giving me advise, God bless you all! keep me in prayer<3
 
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i fell worthless to the world and i feel like dying.. i need help to! guys, i keep getting attacked by the enemy and he is telling me " why live, kill your self. you are worthless. nobody loves you" i just need prayer... please.! and i need advise
Hang on! I am praying for you! Do not despair, satan wants you to follow him, and obey him don't let him win, you are precious to God, created perfect from the beginning. He has given you life for a reason, and to live it to the fullest, by worshiping Him and His son Jesus Christ who was sent as a sin offering, to set you free from the bondages of sin!

I urge you to seek His mercy now in prayer and fasting, repent of all known sins that are holding you down, and keeping you in bondage to the world and your flesh, and IF you come to His throne in humble repentance as the prodigal did, He will reach out to you, but you must do this first:

Jas 4:7 Therefore submit yourselves to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
Jas 4:8 Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, sinners; and purify your hearts, double-minded ones.
Jas 4:9 Be afflicted, and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to heaviness.
Jas 4:10 Be humbled before the Lord, and He will lift you up.

Believe God! Repent, come clear and pure before Him, and He will set you free from your despair, fear, and unworthy feelings.

But if you do what most tell you today, such as just trust He did it all for you, and just receive Jesus, without first repenting and seeking His mercy, then the bondages cannot be broken, you do your part, and God will do His, and remember when one is at then end of thier rope so to speak, and end of self, which suicide is, a selfish way out that leads to hell!

God does have a great plan for your life, but cannot work it out in you, unless you submit to Him in repentance, and obey His word with a pure and undefiled heart.

Jesus died on the cross to set you free from sin and despair, not keep you in bondage, while repentance makes you acceptable to God for Him to come into a broken heart, mend it, and make it new again, free from the wiles of the devil, but again He will not do it for you, you must do your part, coming broken and humble to Him and give you a new heart and life!
 
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I just wanted to say something u guys.

When i first found this website i fought i was going to make good friends here,but everywhere i go people just judge me for my sins and did not ask to pray for me or anything.Im sorry i was such a nuisance,i am going to the voortrekker monument tonight and well,u can see the rest tonight on the south african news,im sorry i brought up the furry thread,i know now that my whole life was a sin.If you think im looking for attention well im not this is just my final farewell,and dont dare pray for me,i need to do this.

Please forgive me you guys for what im going to do,i love u all,but please dont love me back.I dont deserve it.Goodbye.:cool: