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I understand sky ,, I am sort of in the same situation in this season of my life.. The great news is.. God is working sin out of all of us.. I remind myself that I am responsible for where I place myself.. That is in conversations, what I watch , listen to and replace them with wholesome things.. This helps clear out the noise and clutter of things pouring into my life that I want out.. God is doing a good work in you and He "will" make everything new!! Your honesty is such a blessing and encourages others to talk about their struggles too.. It also helps to know that we are not going through this Alone.. You hang in there.. Gods got you! 
Blessings
Michelle
Blessings
Michelle
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Sky, try not to beat yourself up. Everyone makes mistakes. I do the same thing as you- do something that I KNOW I shouldnt do and then go, aw shoot, I just messed up my life. As long as u relize that He still loves u, and ask for forgivness, youll be fine. And as long as youve asked to be forgiven and have the Holy Spirit in yr heart u can be sure ur headed to eternity with God.
Hope this helps.
Hope this helps.
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Oh, Skydoogie, don't beat yourself up, God luvs u no matter what. and Talk to Him, He wants u to, tell, him anything u would tell an average person, or friend. He'll hear u, and let u do most of the talkin'... It's ok, i knwo how u feel, I sometimes feel the same way, it's ok, but remember, u have to try to be a better person, don't worry, we all fall short of the glory of God, found in Romans 3:23. So don't get so upset, just make sure u ask God for forgiveness when u do sin, and try to follow Him faithfully, that was when u get to heaven, He'll say ' Well done my son', wouldn't u like that? I bet u would, i know i would like to meet my Jesus someday, i'm just counting down the days... Don't worry, God will always luv u... God bless u and Jesus luvs u^^
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Oh, Skydoogie, don't beat yourself up, God luvs u no matter what. and Talk to Him, He wants u to, tell, him anything u would tell an average person, or friend. He'll hear u, and let u do most of the talkin'... It's ok, i know how u feel, I sometimes feel the same way, it's ok, but remember, u have to try to be a better person, don't worry, we all fall short of the glory of God, found in Romans 3:23. So don't get so upset, just make sure u ask God for forgiveness when u do sin, and try to follow Him faithfully, that way when u get to heaven, He'll say ' Well done my son', wouldn't u like that? I bet u would, i know i would like to meet my Jesus someday, i'm just counting down the days... Don't worry, God will always luv u... God bless u and Jesus luvs u^^
Bro... seriously.... stop getting so frustrated when you sin...
You aren't perfect... none of us are... and believe it or not.. I am pretty much the same situation as you
I'm pretty much anti-social( i'm homeschooled also so i don't have any friends at school) not because i'm scared of being with ppl or anything... i just find being alone... more interesting then going out to places full of ppl.. who i'd probably... never talk to....
I don't have any close friends either... i used to.. but well i moved to another country.. some things happened between me and the person and well yeah... time and life separates you from other ppl
So yeah.. i know how hard it is... being christian.. and yet have really no fellowship... no christian friends around... and the only friends around you are trying to get you to sin...
Anyways... i'm not sure if this is the case with you... but it was for me... I was in a relationship with God... but it was not the relationship most ppl have with God, i was scared that i would die at any moment.. so i tried and tried.. to be pure.... so that God wouldn't disown me.. I was truly maybe not even Christian.... the only true relationship i had with God was from fear... yes we should fear God.... but we shouldn't just believe in him out of fear.. and that you'd be thrown in hell... NO..... God is a God of love.... and i learned that.... I can't be as pure... i can't be that perfect... and no matter what God loves me even though i sin... and that well... i found that the love of God... is like nothing else... and it's been alot easier living without sin... after realizing that God loves me and even though i sin he will NOT disown me... yet.. he'll want me to seek him more and ask for his help to fight any sin.. and that he will always be there for me when i need it... and that i can always talk to him whenever i wanted.... and that im not strong enough to fight sin... without truly wanting God's help...
Well sorry for the long post.... Long story short...... Live in a relationship with God that is mostly out of his love... not your fear of him(though yeah still fear God.. but yeah u know what i mean xD)
You aren't perfect... none of us are... and believe it or not.. I am pretty much the same situation as you
I'm pretty much anti-social( i'm homeschooled also so i don't have any friends at school) not because i'm scared of being with ppl or anything... i just find being alone... more interesting then going out to places full of ppl.. who i'd probably... never talk to....
I don't have any close friends either... i used to.. but well i moved to another country.. some things happened between me and the person and well yeah... time and life separates you from other ppl
So yeah.. i know how hard it is... being christian.. and yet have really no fellowship... no christian friends around... and the only friends around you are trying to get you to sin...
Anyways... i'm not sure if this is the case with you... but it was for me... I was in a relationship with God... but it was not the relationship most ppl have with God, i was scared that i would die at any moment.. so i tried and tried.. to be pure.... so that God wouldn't disown me.. I was truly maybe not even Christian.... the only true relationship i had with God was from fear... yes we should fear God.... but we shouldn't just believe in him out of fear.. and that you'd be thrown in hell... NO..... God is a God of love.... and i learned that.... I can't be as pure... i can't be that perfect... and no matter what God loves me even though i sin... and that well... i found that the love of God... is like nothing else... and it's been alot easier living without sin... after realizing that God loves me and even though i sin he will NOT disown me... yet.. he'll want me to seek him more and ask for his help to fight any sin.. and that he will always be there for me when i need it... and that i can always talk to him whenever i wanted.... and that im not strong enough to fight sin... without truly wanting God's help...
Well sorry for the long post....
Long story short...... Live in a relationship with God that is mostly out of his love... not your fear of him(though yeah still fear God.. but yeah u know what i mean xD)
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hey Sky, being a Christian doesnt make you sinless..but it sure makes us sin less..by human nature we are really prone to sin and sinning thats why we need Christ to help us overcome and conquer the struggle of living Christ-like..if you have truely accepted Christ as you Lord and Saviour then without a doubt you are saved..and nobody and nothing can take it from you..everybody sins, even Jesus' diciples..whenever you feel guilty for doing something you think is not pleasing to God then ask for forgiveness..good thing our God is a forgiving and just God..
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Titus 3:9
9 But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and arguments and quarrels about the law, because these are unprofitable and useless.
reading those "debates" in the Bible part of this forum won't help anything. You are saved by Jesus and are forgiven, you are trying to save yourself by works which is not possible. However strive for perfection as you are will show you are genuinely a Christian, if you stumble however, don't fret. Your sins are forgiven and I image God is delighted you try to live a good life, just don't try and make it your salvation.
9 But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and arguments and quarrels about the law, because these are unprofitable and useless.
reading those "debates" in the Bible part of this forum won't help anything. You are saved by Jesus and are forgiven, you are trying to save yourself by works which is not possible. However strive for perfection as you are will show you are genuinely a Christian, if you stumble however, don't fret. Your sins are forgiven and I image God is delighted you try to live a good life, just don't try and make it your salvation.
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Omgosh! I know EXACTLY what you mean. I have the exact same problem ! I always go back to Lesbianism. Even though I know it's wrong. I still do it. I feel trapped. Like I can't get away from it. I don't know how to change it. But then that changed tonight. I've been really scared because of all the isis stuff. And I want to ensure my salvation. I prayed with my heart a couple of hours ago. I told God EVERYTHING. And what I realized which someone told me was, in order to stop sinning repeatedly you have to change your mind about it, you have to want to change it and have a relationship with God. And it made sense. But it was still hard because I felt trapped. But I prayed and told God all of my problems and I told Him I wanted to change and that I couldn't do it myself I asked Him to Help me and To change Me. I admitted all of my sins and ask Jesus to save me from it. Now i feel at peace. I know there will be temptation ahead but I believe Jesus will get me through it. So keep your head up. If you wanna talk I'm here.
Hey, as long as you repent for your sins, and try your best to stop doing them, God will forgive you. Just always remember that God will forgive you of all your sins as long as you really really want forgiveness down in your heart.
If you are needing some extra help getting closer to God, and talking to him about how you can help solve these issues with sin you are having. Feel free to try and catch me or another operator online at christian
Sorry about the domain name, I have to upgrade it soon when I get enough donations to do so. But anyway, if you catch me online there I will help you to the best of my abilities.
(Right now I am going to make an appointment schedule, where you can fill out a time you would like to chat with me on the site. That is if you want too.)
If you are needing some extra help getting closer to God, and talking to him about how you can help solve these issues with sin you are having. Feel free to try and catch me or another operator online at christian
Sorry about the domain name, I have to upgrade it soon when I get enough donations to do so. But anyway, if you catch me online there I will help you to the best of my abilities.
(Right now I am going to make an appointment schedule, where you can fill out a time you would like to chat with me on the site. That is if you want too.)