Hi guys I am sorry for the bother I am still trying to be better spiritually and still kind of a seeker I am just so down in life but I am working on getting my life back but here is something I did and I regret it so bad it haunts me daily I have a friend I met on skype I have known a year through a game and yes I know it is through skype but I have known her for so long and I don't really have many friends in real life especially in the public school where I am at but we cant afford putting me somewhere else;/ well anyways I am so self conscious and in my mind I did not know I was going to be friends with her for so long and get so close and no not in a flirty way she is like a sister to me well I lied to her big time she wanted a picture since
I did not have a webcam at the time to get an idea of what I looked like well I sent her a fake picture well mainly to be safe and I am not going to lie I am fat I let myself go I did not want her to laugh and she was pretty so I did not want to be embarrassed this has been in my chest daily and I want to tell her but I am scared of losing her man I have known her for so long without her in my life God knowns where I would be she has given me advice and been there when I was down which has been a lot I have no idea I pray about it and I want to tell her in a way I am scared she will look at me differently and I am scared she will hurt herself and I don't want her to be sad cuz she complimented me so much and same with me doing the same to her and being for her whenever she was sad or cried or needed someone.
I really don't know what to do at this point I struggle a lot and I posted before about a porn addiction and my parents are divorcing which is another toll in my life man I feel so scummy and I know deep down I am not like this I just wish I would not have lied in the beginning and I feel so bad and I do not know how to make this up to her can you guys tell me what I should do and I am sorry for all this long stuff I typed but I posted on here many times going from addiction to divorce to self confidence issues all the way to bad spirituality I mean a lot of crap has happened in my life a lot I can not say on the post but I am here week and mild and I just need comfort at these lost times I am 17 barely and I don't know I feel like a kid I swear.
I have not been in the real world long enough I been like a hermit mostly indoors because of me hiding because of self confidence issues to looks I can not even communicate much outside of school because I am that bad I mean I am working on getting better at the self esteem issues and started going to the gym to help I literally have not looked myself in the mirror for months just please pray for me I am lacking so bad spiritually too and sorry if this is hard to read I just need comfort to bad I am always sad (
I did not have a webcam at the time to get an idea of what I looked like well I sent her a fake picture well mainly to be safe and I am not going to lie I am fat I let myself go I did not want her to laugh and she was pretty so I did not want to be embarrassed this has been in my chest daily and I want to tell her but I am scared of losing her man I have known her for so long without her in my life God knowns where I would be she has given me advice and been there when I was down which has been a lot I have no idea I pray about it and I want to tell her in a way I am scared she will look at me differently and I am scared she will hurt herself and I don't want her to be sad cuz she complimented me so much and same with me doing the same to her and being for her whenever she was sad or cried or needed someone.
I really don't know what to do at this point I struggle a lot and I posted before about a porn addiction and my parents are divorcing which is another toll in my life man I feel so scummy and I know deep down I am not like this I just wish I would not have lied in the beginning and I feel so bad and I do not know how to make this up to her can you guys tell me what I should do and I am sorry for all this long stuff I typed but I posted on here many times going from addiction to divorce to self confidence issues all the way to bad spirituality I mean a lot of crap has happened in my life a lot I can not say on the post but I am here week and mild and I just need comfort at these lost times I am 17 barely and I don't know I feel like a kid I swear.
I have not been in the real world long enough I been like a hermit mostly indoors because of me hiding because of self confidence issues to looks I can not even communicate much outside of school because I am that bad I mean I am working on getting better at the self esteem issues and started going to the gym to help I literally have not looked myself in the mirror for months just please pray for me I am lacking so bad spiritually too and sorry if this is hard to read I just need comfort to bad I am always sad (