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Elizabeth619

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Oh please. He's 15 years old, adn she's 14 years old. He'll probably understand her better than you or I will. Stop making him out to look like a predator. He's probably self-conscious enough about interacting with girls his age.

Geez .. you American guys get really crazy over this kinda stuff. Everyone is a potential serial killer.
Or maybe the fact that a convicted pedophile who targeted teen girls was recently banned from here and out of concern GRA reacted the way he did.
 

NateDaGrimes

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funny she is worrying bout gaining wieght but im worrying bout losing weight... im 5,8 at age of 15 and i weigh 154.... i just want to lose about 10 pounds =P

ima little bulky btw
 
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colalella2891

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Oh please. He's 15 years old, adn she's 14 years old. He'll probably understand her better than you or I will. Stop making him out to look like a predator. He's probably self-conscious enough about interacting with girls his age.

Geez .. you American guys get really crazy over this kinda stuff. Everyone is a potential serial killer.
Are you kidding me? We don't really know how old anybody is on here. Isn't it possible that people can lie about their age on the internet? You could be 50 for all I know, stop overreacting. He was just concerned for her well being. He may have overreacted too, but he apologized.

And your comment about "Americans" really isn't appropriate. Of course we have flaws, but Irish people definitely aren't perfect either.
 
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MatthewMichael

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Don't listen to them. If you're exercising/staying active, eating plenty of veggies, fruits, seeds, nuts and drinking water, you're doing the absolute best thing you can do for your body (assuming your not allergic to any of those :/). People tell me to gain weight too. The majority first world countries are leaning towards obesity these days. If you stay in shape, you won't "fit in" with everyone.
 
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colalella2891

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I'm underweight as well, and I hate it... Lol.

I am about 5'10", and my weight is from about 126 to 130. It fluctuates.

People always tell me how lucky I am, but I just don't like it. I'm turning 22 in a few months and i'm so weak, I can't lift anything. Men are supposed to be at least somewhat strong, and i'm not at all. My limbs are soooo thin too, it makes me self-conscious to wear short sleeves.

Mostly I eat 3 times a day. Some days I eat more meals, some days I eat less. If i'm busy or late for school or something, i'll accidentally skip a meal, which isn't good I know. Currently for exercise I go for 30 minute walks every other day. I do this just to get my heart pumping, and I don't jog because I don't want to lose weight. I've been planning to start working out soon though, to gain some muscle. Right now i'm learning how to cook and prepare the meals i'm supposed to have, healthier, protein-filled, etc.

I probably could eat more than I do, but I also have a fast metabolism. So yeah, you're not the only one who's underweight. Don't fret. :)
 
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FAITHFULGILLIAN

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funny she is worrying bout gaining wieght but im worrying bout losing weight... im 5,8 at age of 15 and i weigh 154.... i just want to lose about 10 pounds =P

ima little bulky btw
i can relate!
 
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prodigaldaughter

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You are created in the image and likeness of God. All things created by Him is by design it was not a chance or an accident. If you are healthy that there is nothing causing you to be thin then that is ok (hint look at your family). However if you are making yourself thin that is not good.

In God's eyes you are beautiful He never made junk. If you want to put on size the healthy way is to exercise do strength training don't stuff yourself to put on weight. The strength training will help your muscles to grow and women can't bulk up unless you are taking steroids. God gave us all talents so check a fitness trainer for this.

Yes it is indeed ok to eat a cheeseburger once in a while nothing is wrong with that, it is Gluttony that is wrong. Ask God to show you what you must know concerning matters of health He will guide you accordingly. Talk to a certified nutritionist.