I know it's a sin to swear but is it a sin to watch movies/tv that swears or has violence in it.
GodLover,
it is... but... walking away from it and into the things the LORD has for you has to be done in His strength.
Here is link with some scriptures that back this up (it's quite a read so prepare yourself):
. http://christianchat.com/christian-teens-forum/34708-my-mind-has-been-blown-satanism-average-persons-opinion.html#post600923
Here's some good ones too:
1Pe 1:15 But as he which hath called you is holy, so
be ye holy in all manner of conversation;
1Pe 1:16 Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy.
1Pe 2:11 Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and pilgrims,
abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul;
1Pe 2:12
Having your conversation honest among the Gentiles: that, whereas they speak against you as evildoers, they may by your good works, which they shall behold, glorify God in the day of visitation.
1Th 5:22
Abstain from all appearance of evil.
1Th 5:23 And the
very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.
1Th 5:24
Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it.
Liken it to a baby trying to eat solid food. He just can't. He has to grow. Then what was difficult and confusing (about trying to do something he believed to be right, but, could not do) will become easy, and a normal part of his identity.
God is not condemning you, but, He does allow just the right amount of wind so that your roots will grow deep in Christ, leaning not on your own strength to be righteous, but, on His.
1Co 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man:
but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a
way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
Joh 14:6 Jesus saith unto him,
I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
Here is some information on how to use the weapons of warfare the LORD has given you, allowing Christ's victory to overcome temptation (Satan):
. http://christianchat.com/christian-teens-forum/34691-encouragement.html#post598988
What's your part in all of this ?
Your part is to keep growing and to put away childish things as you have [grow into] the power [grace] in Christ to put them away. It doesn't have to be a long drawn out process.
Knowing that you are right with the LORD through Christ and humility are the keys.
Examine your faith by categorizing the fruit you see in your life.
The fruit of the Holy Spirit (Gal 5) and
corrupt fruit (at that link above). Take the corrupt fruit to the LORD, knowing that He is your Heavenly Father, by standing on Christ as your righteousness.
Humble yourself before the LORD and take the corrupt fruit to Him during your secret prayer time.
...And confess corrupt fruit to a Christian brother who is bearing abundant fruit of the Holy Spirit (if you don't have someone like that in your life, any believer with works of love can be a witness).
Always declare yourself into standing on Christ, no matter how badly you mess up, before and after confession (I'm talking about other things than the bad words in movies now).
What you are looking for is Grace. Look at the Strong's definition for Grace:
G5485
χάρις
charis
khar'-ece
From G5463; graciousness (as gratifying), of manner or act (abstract or concrete; literal, figurative or spiritual;
especially the divine influence upon the heart, and its reflection in the life; including gratitude): - acceptable, benefit, favour, gift, grace (-ious), joy liberality, pleasure, thank (-s, -worthy).
Divine (GOD's) influence upon your heart and how it reflects in your life.
You know how to get grace:
Jas 4:5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy?
Jas 4:6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith,
God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.
Jas 4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God.
Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
Jas 4:8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.
Use that
warfare link above to learn how to resist the devil (temptation), to stand on Christ as your righteousness (
Psalms 18 - make His righteousness your own), and to confess your corrupt fruit to a brother in Christ to humble yourself before the LORD. He will give you grace in your heart and it will reflect/manifest His
righteousness (which is your true identity) into this dark world.
Read the bible, ask the Lord about the parts you don't understand; stand on Christ as your righteousness for the parts that condemn you.
The Bible is the water that renews your mind. Keep pouring it into your heart, fill your heart to the brim and keep filling it. It will change you and become the life of Christ inside you and it will be a shield all around you.
I stand with you for this prayer:
Heavenly Father,
Help me to love what You love and to hate what You hate. Lead me not into temptation. Deliver me from evil. Let my righteousness, who is Christ, manifest itself to this dark world, through me. Perfect Love in my heart. In Jesus Name, Amen.
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