Thank you percepi, so I can be happy for a gay couple getting married but still disapprove their inappropiate actions?
People are quick to point out 'homosexuality is just another sin, no worse', so lets apply that logic to your question here. If two people sin, can you be happy for them?
If a man murders can you be happy for him, yet still disapprove of his actions?
What if he steals?
Lies?
See, what you're asking is 'can i be happy for two people that sin, yet disagree with their sin?'. The answer is no, you cannot support sinful behavior and disapprove of it at the same time. If all sins are equal and people are saying it's ok to support homosexuality, and disagree with it, then you would have to apply that to all sin.
The simple answer is, you cannot support sin. Period. This isn't to say you can't love the people, be their friends, support them in other areas of their lives, but you Cannot support them in their sin and still disapprove. To support means to encourage, stand behind and approve of. It's a way of saying 'i'm all for this'. Christ never set that example, yes, he loved people first and foremost, but he also did not hesitate to call people out for their sins. People often forget this and put all the emphasis on Christs love. But really Christ put a lot of people in their places as well. He commanded them to stop sinning. This is Also the message of Christ while he walked the earth, not just love.
People forget part of love is not always just accepting everything, but caring enough to help someone get out of their bad choices as well. If you loved someone who is in an abusive relationship, would say 'that's what they want, so i will say nothing'? Is that love? Or is love stepping out and doing everything you can to encourage them Out of that relationship? Love doesn't always equal acceptance.
