Moving out.

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nicknack100

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So today I'm moving out of home, I live with my mum (my dad passed away a few years ago and my sister lives in the area I'll be moving to) and I'm moving 3.5 hours south of my mum to Auckland to start university in 2 weeks, I'm honestly terrified but so excited at the same time. I have been drifting away from God quite a bit the last couple months and that scares me, I don't want to fall into anything bad in Auckland, the opportunities to get involved in drugs/sexual relations etc. are much more abundant in Auckland than the little ol' town that I'm from. I'll definitely be attending a church in Auckland, but I'm scared to go as I'll be completely alone. What are some ideas to re-connect myself with God and be closer than ever with Him so I can stay safe in Auckland?
Also, if you read my last thread on here you'll know I suffer from temptations of homosexuality, so staying away from giving into that would be really good, as there is no opportunity to do anything direct with another guy in my current town but as I'm moving to the big city there is A LOT more opportunity to get involved with 'that' side of the world.
Thanks in advance :)
 
Channa

Channa

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He NickNack,

That's a point. I really hope and pray that Auckland will be good for you :) What you are goin to study? Maybe it's a good idea to join a church, or a christian youth group? I googled, and this may be something? C3 Church Auckland
Auckland doesn't have to be a bad thing for you. You are strong, because God is with you. You're gonna make it in Auckland.

Success,
I'll pray for ya,
Channa
 
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Moose_Almighty

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Sounds to me like you're an extrovert, like Channa mentioned above just get involved with a church. Take advantage of all the volunteer opportunities/group activities when you have time and continue you spread your social network throughout Auckland. Everything is going to be alright, God is going to be with you all of the way! :)


-Moose_Almighty-
 
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Elijah19

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I will pray for you, my brother. I don't really know what it's like to suffer from that kind of temptation, but I know it must be hard, and I pray you will find courage and strength.

Hope I'm not prying too much, and this may sound strange at first, but did your dad's passing away have anything to do with you developing homosexual desires? Clinical Psychological study has proven that homosexual tendencies often have roots in the desire for a father figure within the surviving son. If one goes missing earlier on in life, the griever going through sexual maturity can often link that desire for the missing father figure within the surviving son to the sexual drive. In this way, your mind may be wired by the traumatic experience of your loss. Let me ask you, did you only begin to desire homosexual activity after your father passed? If so, perhaps squaring with your loss on a deeper level will help you.
 
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Peter96

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I think you need to be real with yourself. I've sent you a private message regarding this issue which I can relate to and there was a point in my life where I was very very very close to going to 'the other side' and I know how strong the temptation can be. Don't get comfortable. This is when you really need to cling to Jesus with all your might. Expect the devil to attack you very heavily with temptations. Make sure your heart is in the right place, and by that I mean, when you look into yourself deep down, ask yourself if you do want to sin. You have to be completely honest with yourself. And if you find that you do want to sin, fret not, take it to Jesus. HE CARES! He really does and I believe it brings a smile to His face when you are honest with Him, He welcomes you with open arms :) I also would advice against going to church. Going to church will keep you in lukewarmness because the people there aren't seeking Jesus but following a tradition.
 
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