everybody knows you shoudn't have sex before marriage...but let's face it.IT'S hard!for many..yea..i know..if you love Jesus enough you will respect these standards.personally,i decided to stay pure until i get married.but,you may have taken this decision yourselves but in your mind....you are not that pure..i know a person.my best friend,she was so enthusiastic about staying virgin for the man she was gonna marry with..next day i found out she was pregnant,before marriage.as the matter of fact she was only sixteen.don't play with such things...maybe you're not that ready as you think..it's a hard temptation that not many could resist.everybody knows the theory,but that's not enough.you need to have a good relationship with God,and a good relationship with the person you want to spend your life with.there has to be love,which implies respect.