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Amen, todays world people just want pleasure instead of realising that they are using that person for there own personal pleasure and fulfillment. God hate's sin for a reason, broken homes, unplanned babies who do the same thing when they get older. It is very serious to fall into the temptation of Sex before marriage, hurting the spirit of God inside of you and abusing the Grace of God.
Sex will not make you happy, it will not make everything ohk if you get married, it's knowing Jesus Christ and who he is and what he has done. Yes, we make mistake's but we live under grace and should not tempt ourselfs in this area as we will be judge on judgment day for all the sins we have done.
God says he will provide with living water, go to him in FAITH and ask for that water if you find youself getting caught out and confused. God care's and know our needs we have to be patient and wait on him, we should no encourage people to have sex before marriage! Read your bible people! God calls us to be holy as he is holy so honour God with your body.
Sex will not make you happy, it will not make everything ohk if you get married, it's knowing Jesus Christ and who he is and what he has done. Yes, we make mistake's but we live under grace and should not tempt ourselfs in this area as we will be judge on judgment day for all the sins we have done.
God says he will provide with living water, go to him in FAITH and ask for that water if you find youself getting caught out and confused. God care's and know our needs we have to be patient and wait on him, we should no encourage people to have sex before marriage! Read your bible people! God calls us to be holy as he is holy so honour God with your body.
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I wish I had saved myself for marriage!! God is so proud of you for staying true to yourself. And you are so lucky to be able to give that gift to your future husband...Pray toGod to give you the right man...and just offer up your worry to the Lord...and have trust and faith in God that the right man will be willing to to wait...stay true to yourself!! I am praying for you!! BGY!!!
Sarah
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Hey sister, nope there are guys out there willing to wait. I'm one of em... I'm 25 years old and still waiting... don't get scared ok, just pray and keep waiting. I think it's awesome your waiting and I tip my hat to you =]
Whoever your husband is will be one very fortunate guy for looking to God's will.
Whoever your husband is will be one very fortunate guy for looking to God's will.
Yeah... like ALL the guys are born perverts 
We dont think about anything else other than sex. True that... -_- *Sarcasm*
Listen missy some men are just tired of waiting.. But they still wait. They get peer pressures all the time. They get names such as weirdo, hobo, gay and what not. BUT they still wait. Sometimes they get scared and ask God "Jesus Im saving myself... will my wife do the same thing?!" It makes them sweat in a cold winter day. Trust me I know. Because I'm one of them. You will find your man in God's timing
We dont think about anything else other than sex. True that... -_- *Sarcasm*Listen missy some men are just tired of waiting.. But they still wait. They get peer pressures all the time. They get names such as weirdo, hobo, gay and what not. BUT they still wait. Sometimes they get scared and ask God "Jesus Im saving myself... will my wife do the same thing?!" It makes them sweat in a cold winter day. Trust me I know. Because I'm one of them. You will find your man in God's timing
J
My first husband and I didn't wait. However we were each others first kiss and all that. Thought that was all special and great...However, my current husband (second) and I waited till after we were married. I think it was entirely better then the first time. Seeing I've experienced both sides I would highly suggest waiting.
J
How's this for a start?
1 Corinthians 7:2
2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.
Matthew 5:28
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
1 Corinthians 7:2
2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.
Matthew 5:28
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Having sex without marry is a sin. Sex was made only for married people and those who wait to have sex until they are married are blessed and rewarded for waiting. The devil knows the handsome reward waiting all those who have waited until married before having sex. Because of the Great reward involve in keeping your virginity until married, the devil is trying to prevent us not to have this reward and some of us have fall into his trap by having sex without marry.All those who keep their virginity to their Husband or Wife are greatly rewarded by GOD ALMIGHTY. So do everything in your power to keep your virginity until the right time.
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Fornication typically refers to consensual sexual intercourse between two people not married to each other.(by wikipedia)
1 corinthians 6 ( KJV)
18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
1 Thessalonians 4:3
King James Version (KJV)
3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
1 corinthians 6 ( KJV)
18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
1 Thessalonians 4:3
King James Version (KJV)
3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
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Hello,
As a guy reading this forum i would like to say that there are guys would love to wait with you If you get into a relationship and the guy wants to have sex with you I personally would tell him to --edited for language--, your body is precious and GOD will bless you if you wait
I hope this helps a little
As a guy reading this forum i would like to say that there are guys would love to wait with you
If you get into a relationship and the guy wants to have sex with you I personally would tell him to --edited for language--, your body is precious and GOD will bless you if you wait I hope this helps a little
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i think all guys r naturally wired for that sort of thing. but the good ones dont give in while the bad ones let it take over. ick. i will pray for u. i may only be 13 but i already have a policy set for when i get older- i wont date anyone who cant accept me for who i am, has a bad reputation, or that I dont know enough about to really trust.