Selfishness of my brother is tearing my family apart

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Justagirlthatsings

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Hey everybody. So, my brother has been studying musical theatre for a few years in college and went from being a good Christian man to a selfish person. He told my father that he should not be a pastor and that he had a terrible childhood. My brother is having pre-marital sex, smokes weed all the time, and is just completely rebelling. My mom cries all the time, and my dad is keeping himself busy with the church to not think about it. I don't know what to do. Any advice?
 
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HookEmHorns

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Hey everybody. So, my brother has been studying musical theatre for a few years in college and went from being a good Christian man to a selfish person. He told my father that he should not be a pastor and that he had a terrible childhood. My brother is having pre-marital sex, smokes weed all the time, and is just completely rebelling. My mom cries all the time, and my dad is keeping himself busy with the church to not think about it. I don't know what to do. Any advice?
I wish I could give you a solution that would fix everything, but I can't. I think the most important thing you can do is pray that God will change your brother's heart. If he is currently living at home, try to invite him to church with you. I personally will pray that your brother will be reminded of God's love and glorious grace.
 
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Justagirlthatsings

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Thank you so much. God bless you
 

Channa

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Hej, I'll pray for you, your brother and family. God will lead.