So Shes Pregnant...?

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blue_ladybug

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i dont go to church so i dont really know any pastors i can go to

Then I suggest you go outside and walk until you find a church, go inside it and ask to speak to someone. tell them the situatiion and ask if they could get you in touch with someone who CAN help you.. I also suggest you start going to church.. :)
 
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Rosesrock

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i dont go to church so i dont really know any pastors i can go to
Go to a local crisis pregnancy center, but unfortunately ypu are 14, which means you are under age, most evervyone...even a pastor will point you to your parents
 
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Levichevett

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Then I suggest you go outside and walk until you find a church, go inside it and ask to speak to someone. tell them the situatiion and ask if they could get you in touch with someone who CAN help you.. I also suggest you start going to church.. :)
well i could probably go on a church hunt tomorow after school. and ive been meaning to go to church but its just a matter of my parents now wanting me to and i cant sneak out every sunday morning wihtout them figuring it out
 
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Rosesrock

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im not sure but shes 6 weeks if that helps
I honestly dont think theres much you can do. Legally there are no laws for dads. Plus you dont know it's yours. Im sorry. Im trying to rack my brain to figure out what you can do, but it will be up to the girl and her parents.
 

JesusLives

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You also said she had slept with other boys.....before I paid for the abortion I would get a paternity test and make sure you are the father and even if you are the father it took two to make this child if they insist on the abortion you could say it is against your belief to have an abortion but I would only pay 50% since the girl consented to having sex. You are both equally responsible for this action.

Too bad fathers can't have more say as it is their child too. Praying for you to build character from this experience and that you will commit your life to God and find a place to worship and get closer to God. If you have a Bible at home start reading the book of John it is a love chapter and could help you become more familiar with Jesus who loves you and has forgiven you when you ask for forgiveness. Such a hard thing for a 14 year old to go through. Hugs through the internet....God loves you very much even when we have made mistakes.....remember that.

Dear Father

Please be with our young brother and help him through this difficult situation. Father You know he does not want the girl to get an abortion and we ask that this could work out to bring You honor and glory. That somehow this child will be able to live and be adopted. If it doesn't happen that way then Father wrap Your arms of love around our young brother and help him to learn from this a lesson he will never forget that there are consequences to our actions.

Help this young man to become closer to You and somehow help both families to get a knowledge and understanding of your grace and forgiveness and may they all be saved in your kingdom someday. Soften the parents hearts and help the best situation to happen for the unborn child I pray in Jesus Name Amen.
 
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Go to a local crisis pregnancy center, but unfortunately ypu are 14, which means you are under age, most evervyone...even a pastor will point you to your parents
A pastor could possibly be his ADVOCATE for the CHILDS LIFE. A phone call or visit from a pastor . Talk about squelching hope! smh...........
 
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Rosesrock

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A pastor could possibly be his ADVOCATE for the CHILDS LIFE. A phone call or visit from a pastor . Talk about squelching hope! smh...........
I work at a crisis pregnancy center....yes there are times the situation is extremely hopeless
 
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Levichevett

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ive been on the phone with her father and he is arranging for her to have the abortion this weekend or some time next week so ive basically got this week to do something about it fml this is not gonna work
 

blue_ladybug

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ive been on the phone with her father and he is arranging for her to have the abortion this weekend or some time next week so ive basically got this week to do something about it fml this is not gonna work

Only God can stop this abortion. If for some reason He chooses not to, then he will be teaching you both a hard-learned lesson.. :( And what is that lesson? To stop making stupid choices and start being more responsible for each of your actions.. To ask HIM first what you should be doing..
 

student

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Father God, thank You so much that this young man has turned to a Christian forum for help in his time of need. I pray he be led by Your Spirit and follows You so that he can know a life of joy, peace and freedom in You, Jesus!

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Levi,
You have a lot of good advice on here. I agree: 1.To be the best self you can be would be to find an adult who is strong enough to help with the situation. 2. Ask Jesus to help you through and learn from the experience. 3. Forgive yourself...14 is not old enough to take on so much responsibility in a world that revolves around these things, yet not you have the opportunity to grow in faith, strength and grace...so someday you can be a Father...who can "raise up your child in the way he should go". You've taken a responsible action in coming here. Deep breath of courage...do the next right thing and pick up the phone and call someone you trust. 4. Witness to that girl...as best you can, knowing she may still make the wrong decision, or her family may... You plant seeds of faith by speaking and testifying. God has to do the rest. Prayers are with you, young Man. -student
 
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Rosesrock

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let's all pray for Levi. But more specifically if we pray in belief of a miracle, this baby could be saved.

And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive. Matt 21:22

Levi what is her name
 
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cmarieh

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let's all pray for Levi. But more specifically if we pray in belief of a miracle, this baby could be saved.

And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive. Matt 21:22

Levi what is her name
Yes, I will be praying for this entire situation as well. Where two or more are gathered in God's name he is there.
 
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Levichevett

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let's all pray for Levi. But more specifically if we pray in belief of a miracle, this baby could be saved.

And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive. Matt 21:22

Levi what is her name
her names Olivia
 
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I work at a crisis pregnancy center....yes there are times the situation is extremely hopeless
What does a pregnancy crisis centre do?...like obviously if for girls who are pregnant but...wot exactly is done there?
 
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Rosesrock

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What does a pregnancy crisis centre do?...like obviously if for girls who are pregnant but...wot exactly is done there?
Girls, come in for free pregnancy test and counseling for their options. We give all the information so they have facts. They can bring anyone they want, but we protect the privacy of the girl. We present the gospel and then listen.......we offer a free ultrasound if she's far enough along. Sometimes if they see the baby and heartbeat they will see life, but not always. I've had quite a few that have not cared about even a beating heart or waving hand. They still would want to abort. We don't refer to any abortion clinic.....In our state all girls have to have counseling prior to their abortion.
I've seen God do amazing things. But we have to get to the Girl. Guys don't come in by themselves because they don't have rights. Paternity testing is expensive during pregnancy and not free when the baby is born.
I could go on for days, But thanks for asking. Good question.
 
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Rosesrock

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Dear Lord, I bring you Olivia today. I pray Lord for this situation. We don't know all involved Lord but you do. We know you create life and that we are not to take it away. I pray Lord for Olivia's heart. I pray Lord for her Dad's heart. Lord soften them and show them this is a life you created. You have a plan for everyone you put on this earth. I pray that no appt could be made. I pray that the clinic would be over booked. I pray Lord believing in a miracle. Please save this baby.
In your name I pray,
Amen


Levi, there are laws here all over that prevent abortions after a certain amount of time. Could you find out what week that is there? The question would be.....When is it too late to have an abortion where you live.