what Kind of Anger?

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looly

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Ok this maybe silly , but just wanted to know to which extent anger can show on a person?

some of the people I know when they are angry their face turns red which I somehow cant get myself to remain calm and not laugh , not on them but the way their face look.

Others have an evil glare and finally some when they get angry they smile with a way that send a chill down your spine and I think its the people with the most anger.

is it that or they just express their anger that way?

A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger (Proverbs 15:1).:)
 
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kenisyes

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Don't go by what you see. Different sub-cultures are taught to hold their bodies and faces differently.

As you grow older in Christ, He will change it so you show less anger to all you meet, and will be more honest at expressing your true emotions. This is part of conforming you to Him. People without Him don't get that benefit; the lack of it is part of what you are seeing.
 
sanglina

sanglina

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looly said:
Ok this maybe silly , but just wanted to know to which extent anger can show on a person?

some of the people I know when they are angry their face turns red which I somehow cant get myself to remain calm and not laugh , not on them but the way their face look.

Others have an evil glare
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LOL..!!! Just reading your thread made me laugh so much. I would definitely laugh out loud too (as I have in the past) if I see those same facial expressions again :D
 
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Flutteraritypiejackspark

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I smile if I get mad... I think it's my own way of trying to calm down and see things from the other side of the stick, so I can stop arguing and getting mad.

(Because I'm terrible at yelling. My voice is all squeaky.)
 
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Indubitably

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I've prayed and sought God to help me control and do away with anger in my life. He did the work in me and now I rarely get angry. If someone does make me angry, I simply remove myself from the situation and thank God for keeing my emotions from displaying anger. This is a whole lot better testimony that coming back to say, "I'm sorry".
 
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Ugly

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Perhaps try studying up on reading body language and facial expressions. While there can be some cultural differences, many expressions are consistent across all cultures as some gestures seem to be built into all humans.
Something they teach you, is in trying to read people, you often have to consider each person. To say that one type of angry face on means a certain type of anger is misleading. Two people can have 'angry red faces', but that doesn't mean their anger is the same. That's just the physical response to their emotion and has nothing to do with the level of emotion.
 
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looly

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kenisyes said:
Don't go by what you see. Different sub-cultures are taught to hold their bodies and faces differently.

As you grow older in Christ, He will change it so you show less anger to all you meet, and will be more honest at expressing your true emotions. This is part of conforming you to Him. People without Him don't get that benefit; the lack of it is part of what you are seeing.
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Its actually not me who becomes angry its just some of my friends acts differently towards anger with different expressions when put in an embarrising situation and I thought it was the fact that they differ in sensetivity or some gets hurt easily than the others.:)
 
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looly

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sanglina said:
LOL..!!! Just reading your thread made me laugh so much. I would definitely laugh out loud too (as I have in the past) if I see those same facial expressions again :D
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Believe me it takes every fiber of my being not to laugh because it will be just plain rude not to consider other people feelings but its just the sudden change of colour that makes it hard not to burst out laughing.:D
 
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looly

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Flutteraritypiejackspark said:
I smile if I get mad... I think it's my own way of trying to calm down and see things from the other side of the stick, so I can stop arguing and getting mad.

(Because I'm terrible at yelling. My voice is all squeaky.)
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hhhhh, thanks for the tip, cause some of the ones who smile when they are angry, always gets me alarmed but now I will always remember thats its just their way and I like the squeaky part, I totally think that it will change when you get older because I had that squeaky voice since the age of 8 till 14.:D
 
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looly

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Indubitably said:
I've prayed and sought God to help me control and do away with anger in my life. He did the work in me and now I rarely get angry. If someone does make me angry, I simply remove myself from the situation and thank God for keeing my emotions from displaying anger. This is a whole lot better testimony that coming back to say, "I'm sorry".
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Thats exactly what we need to do when facing situations like this, way to go and I am sure that your life shows how much the lord shows through it:D
 
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looly

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Ugly said:
Perhaps try studying up on reading body language and facial expressions. While there can be some cultural differences, many expressions are consistent across all cultures as some gestures seem to be built into all humans.
Something they teach you, is in trying to read people, you often have to consider each person. To say that one type of angry face on means a certain type of anger is misleading. Two people can have 'angry red faces', but that doesn't mean their anger is the same. That's just the physical response to their emotion and has nothing to do with the level of emotion.
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Thanks for the tip, totally helped.After years of thinking that some of them just might get to the extent of having a heart attack, I am totally not worried now.:D
 
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