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Just wanted to know people's thoughts on this subject. I've been dating someone for 2+ years. Ill be completely honest. The relationship started when we were both sinning (fornication and living together). We began attending church (since we are both Christian) a few months after we began dating. I hadn't been to church in years (since maybe 12yo) and although he easily agreed to go also he hardly paid much interest during the services. Well, I started feeling guilty about the sin we were committing so I tried to talk to him several times about living right. He said he couldn't live without sex and on another occasion admitted he was a sex addict. So I stayed for sometime after because i was weak and thought i couldnt bear the heartbreak. I continued to sin with him in fornication although I was well aware that the situation would eventually get worse. He was also watching porn throughout the time we were dating and that eventually turned into his watching Web Cam live videos, etc (around the time I chose to continue to sin with him). When i found out about this it tore me up inside and i struggled back and forth with myself over leaving him or not. Well, I decided to leave him and told both his parents about his problem. His mom encouraged me to pray for him and have faith in God that he would be saved; and if u had faith he would change. I truly believed and prayed for him. He even started to admit he was sinning by watching porn after his parents talked to him (prior to this he was blind and said he wasn't hurting anyone by watching it). However, he still watches porn once every so often from what I know. We have talked about getting married and other than this issue he truly is a great man. My issue is that he still hasn't stopped altogether Watching Web cams, etc and appears to have a strong attraction to pictures of almost naked women. I know that he hasnt cheated on me but im afraid that he will since he appears to be so easily enticed. I am afraid that this sin will carry on into out marriage. I am praying for God to show me which route to take; for His will to be done in my life as I know he only has the best for my future. I don't want to make this choice on my own and make the wrong choice by only relying on my own understanding. At this point I'm not sure if I should continue to pray intervention for him and stay by his side or if I should leave him altogether as 'bad company corrupts good morals'...
