So like I just moved back to my hometown to live with my parents, after doing missions for a year. The sad thing is that I have like no friends here, and the one friend that i am friends with has a bf and constantly ditches me to hang out with him..
I have never had a boyfriend, so that doesn't help me either, like is it okay for me to feel hurt and upset by all of this? Or am I making a big deal out of nothing?
Honey, I know exactly what you're going through. I went through a similar situation not too long ago and got really depressed about it. I think you have every right to feel what you feel. It's strange when you have been gone for a while and everything seems to change. We all expect to come back to familiarity because that's what we're comfortable with. I'm in a new town and the people here are rude as all get out. I don't know anyone besides my family and it gets a little lonely at times.
What I would do is try to talk to your friends since you have been gone for a while. They've made new friends and started new things since you left and now you have to take it upon yourself to have them include you in their new lives. It's hard to get adjusted, but you'll get through it. I found a lot of peace talking with people on CC and keeping in touch online. If you're looking to make some new friends, I'd love to chat with ya!
Change is always hard, and it may seem like everyone has forgotten about you, but they haven't. You're going to be fine, with just a little effort to show them that you want to be apart of their lives now that you're back.
Hope this helps. God Bless!
I think it's normal when you move somewhere new to feel a bit isolated for a while.
