Had to tell someone that we couldn't go out because of differences we had

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AbbeyJoy

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#21
Don't let the look deceive you sista..lol :D
 

ChandlerFan

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I know it feels like it sucks, but as you already know, life sucks less now than it would when your heart is set on a guy who wants you to compromise morally :)
 
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JustAnotherUser

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#23
Look on the bright side - at least you weren't making much if any stupid moves to obtain such interest or love. You respected yourself enough to know to cut the cord if a person didn't respect your behalf while expecting you to do so for them. Some folks have to learn the hard and pathetic way...
 

djness

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This is the first time in my entire existence that I've heard of a flesh bag.
I think I heard it on an episode of furturama when bender was trashing humans in general.
Bender is a robot. He usually wants to kill all humans. Except for when he is partying, which fortunately for all humans is 99% of the time.
 

tourist

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I think I heard it on an episode of furturama when bender was trashing humans in general.
Bender is a robot. He usually wants to kill all humans. Except for when he is partying, which fortunately for all humans is 99% of the time.
Bender is a habitual abuser of electricity, at least he was a few years ago.
 
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This sucks. It really does. I usually don't do venting forums but here goes.

I had to tell a guy that looked completely amazing on paper and asked ME for MY NUMBER. This has never happened to me in my entire life. But believes that extramarital sex outside of marriage is ok. I think he means before marriage, but I'm not sure. Pretty sure he isn't Christian. I know this is best but....eh....
TLW!

Hang tough!

A more respectable guy will come along...one who will respect sex and your decision to give yourself to only one guy.

:)
 
Mar 22, 2013
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I don't think anyone has ever asked me for my phone number.

You just have to ask them instead :D. I mean, they might not say yes (I think my success rate is somewhere lower than 25 percent, maybe like ten percent). But that's why you just do it a lot of times.

Even with a 1 percent success rate, if you ask 100 people, you eventually get one that says yes. And with those kind of numbers, you just ask people out while shopping for groceries or whatever other boring normal daily tasks you're doing. If it doesn't work, that's fine, you just ask another 100 people.

I've never asked 100 people out in my life either.

Apparently I'm boring.
I don't ask anyone for anything.