how can you change your sexuality back to normal????

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hey well im a 19 year old girl who at a point has tried being gay and fell out of the word of god but now that i actiually want to try to get back in gods things i dont know what to do about the feelings and mentality that i have about that i dont know how to hange it all i pray for is to god help me remove all thoose fellings but i just dont know how any boady that has had a problem like this and has solved it i would like to know what did you guys do to get out of it!!?/ thank you all GOD BLESS
 
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2 Corinthians 5
17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. 18 Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation, 19 that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not imputing their trespasses to them, and has committed to us the word of reconciliation.

I have never experienced what you have experienced, but you must know something. The God who created the universe is the same God that gave Himself up on the cross so that you could be forgiven and be called a Child of God. Thanks to His resurrection we are also promised to never die(spiritually). It is this same power that we have our hope and faith in. The power of the almighty God.

Just like the passage says up there, if you are in Christ you are a new creation. All your sin was nailed to the cross of Jesus, therefore you should also crucify your old self to it. You MUST believe this, you ARE a new creation. God has the power to heal you, He has healed other people from this. But you must not feed the fire. Don't feed your thoughts when they come. Instead when they do come seek God with all your heart.

Ephesians 6:10-18

New King James Version (NKJV)

The Whole Armor of God


10 Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. 11 Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. 12 For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age,[a] against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. 13 Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
14 Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness, 15 and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; 16 above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. 17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; 18 praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints—

The girdle of truth is what sustains the whole armor. Discerning right from wrong in the light of the scripture. It takes more than just prayer to do what you are seeking God to do for you. Confess your sins, repent from them because they lead to death, deny yourself, ask God to heal you, then follow Him through His word and prayer having the whole armor of God, because God will test you to build you up but satan will tempt you to break you down. There is nothing impossible for Him, but we must also do our part.

God bless you!
 
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Hi Woo,

First, it is great that you've made this decision. I know God is very proud of you. :)

I don't know a large amount about this, but Lad is very opn about his healing from homosexuality. He started a thread about it: http://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/25945-healing-homosexuality.html

I think he has some good advice. Also, I know accountability is important for many people when dealing with any sort of habitual sin.

I think Romans 6 offers great advice for this. Be a slave to Christ and serve Him as Lord and Master, instead of the sins of the past. :)

Romans 6

Dead to Sin, Alive in Christ

1 What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? 2 By no means! We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? 3 Or don’t you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? 4 We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.

5 For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly also be united with him in a resurrection like his. 6 For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin— 7 because anyone who has died has been set free from sin.

8 Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. 9 For we know that since Christ was raised from the dead, he cannot die again; death no longer has mastery over him. 10 The death he died, he died to sin once for all; but the life he lives, he lives to God.

11 In the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus. 12 Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its evil desires. 13 Do not offer any part of yourself to sin as an instrument of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer every part of yourself to him as an instrument of righteousness. 14 For sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.

Slaves to Righteousness

15 What then? Shall we sin because we are not under the law but under grace? By no means! 16 Don’t you know that when you offer yourselves to someone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one you obey—whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness? 17 But thanks be to God that, though you used to be slaves to sin, you have come to obey from your heart the pattern of teaching that has now claimed your allegiance. 18 You have been set free from sin and have become slaves to righteousness.

19 I am using an example from everyday life because of your human limitations. Just as you used to offer yourselves as slaves to impurity and to ever-increasing wickedness, so now offer yourselves as slaves to righteousness leading to holiness. 20 When you were slaves to sin, you were free from the control of righteousness. 21 What benefit did you reap at that time from the things you are now ashamed of? Those things result in death! 22 But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life. 23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.​
 
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