I dont want 2 make another mistake. help saints

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childOFgod94

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Saints, im gonna be honest with you....just this once.:) lol
I am struggling with gay urges and havnt had sex with anyone in about 3 months. Before that I was in a off, on relationship with my ex for about 3 years. Hes bi sexual and wasseeing other women while with me. And everytime I cut him off. But somhow we always come back to each other. One reason was he lived 3 house from me so we always eventually reconnected.
Now he moved and once again the relationship with a female that he left me for has floped I guess. Long story short (as possible) were talking again, and wants to come over tonight. He is the only boy only Person ive had sex witn in the past 3 years so I know by now HE IS MY POISON. my kryptonite per say. I have been good for the past 3 months lik I said. Im afraid that heyl come over and il get caught up and engage with him once again. I think I love him but I do belive same sex relationship is wrong. Im not attracted to women at all so ive been celibate basically. I dont want to make another mistake. I know (i try not to think about it) that heyl never be with me completely. I think lik oh were just friends now but we haven't been just friends for a long time. Support please saints luv YOU all :)
 
Blain

Blain

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Well I know that being gay is bad for a Christian but i don't know you or if your a Christian. I have this to say though, take it easy my friend and don't worry so much. If you are a Christian just continue to seek God and ask for his help and remember that he died for sins so he won't condemn you for messing up he just loves that your trying.
 
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Wormwood

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That's fine ─ good, even ─ that you love him. I am doubtful that you are in love with him, though, and it does not sound like he is in love with you.

If you truly feel he is your "poison," let your ties with him loosen. You can do so and still love him, all the while protecting yourself from being a creature of habit, a habit that you are not content with.

"If your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off; it is better for you to enter life crippled, than, having your two hands, to go into hell, into the unquenchable fire..." (Mark 9:43)
 
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