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I am 22 married to a 18 year old in the navy. We are struggling with the accusation of infidelity in the marriage . I have heard many rumors about what happens in the barracks . So me being concerned with our lack of communication and the distance I was away from my wife . I picked up sold my dream truck my tools and quit my job as a apprentice machinist to be near her . I came her with the ideal i needed to fix our marriage . And 3600 miles away wasn't the place to do it . After trying for about 1 month now I have only confirmed my fears of what goes on in the mixed gender barracks and have heard rumors of my wife's involvement . I brought it up to her only for her to deny it than shut down . She has lived a hard life abused by her father and grandfather and in and out of foster homes . I fear that she has cheated on me . Any insight how do I go about this ? What should be my next steps . I feel the window to fix this is closing fast. Just my two cents I would like her to be back in California with me and going to school out of the navy . Which is just one sees pool of sexual indulgence .