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JR1996

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Hey guys, I know there are some young adults out there that are currently watching porn. Well, let me tell you something; PORN is EVIL. Trust me, personal experiences. However, the reddit community has something to help co-op with this. The NoFap Challenge. NoFap: Partake in the ultimate challenge This website takes you to a list of forums reading people success stories when quitting porn. Take the challenge and become a better person!!!!
 
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Ugly

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This was posted a couple months ago i believe. And encouraged by a few members.
 
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JR1996

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Yeah I think it was, I found this a couple days ago lol. I felt like I needed to share this though.
 
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Ecclesiastik

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I don't think you are in a good way if you look towards secular means to stop committing sin. I would say this to the man who goes to a secular therapist to stop committing adultery as well as those who go to reddit instead of Christ to stop their actions fueled by unbridled lust, greed, and lies about sexual intercourse.

Seek the kingdom first.
 
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ServantStrike

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I don't think you are in a good way if you look towards secular means to stop committing sin. I would say this to the man who goes to a secular therapist to stop committing adultery as well as those who go to reddit instead of Christ to stop their actions fueled by unbridled lust, greed, and lies about sexual intercourse.

Seek the kingdom first.
Sometimes a secular source can be helpful (for example a therapist may be able to help even if they aren't professing Christ), but reddit of all places is one of the last places I'd look.

Seeing as reddit is full of people who absolutely love pornography and see nothing wrong with it, and even has a NSFW section (gotta at least say that's nice in that you at least know what to steer clear of). No idea whats on the NSFW section, not checking either, but seriously a site that has NSFW in it isn't going to be where I'm going to look for ways to stop looking at porn.

If you want to look to other CCers, this has actually been done before on this very site though. Some of us are still talking about it when the occasion comes up.
 
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Ecclesiastik

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Servant, I know that secular sources can sometimes be helpful. However, why would you go looking for a band-aid when you've got the cure in Jesus Christ? Often these band-aids are infected if they have no base on Jesus Christ, anyway.
 
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Sometimes a secular source can be helpful (for example a therapist may be able to help even if they aren't professing Christ), but reddit of all places is one of the last places I'd look.

Seeing as reddit is full of people who absolutely love pornography and see nothing wrong with it, and even has a NSFW section (gotta at least say that's nice in that you at least know what to steer clear of). No idea whats on the NSFW section, not checking either, but seriously a site that has NSFW in it isn't going to be where I'm going to look for ways to stop looking at porn.

If you want to look to other CCers, this has actually been done before on this very site though. Some of us are still talking about it when the occasion comes up.
Reddit is a collection of individually created "subreddits" with no limits on the rules whatsever, so it is up to each person to go to certain subreddits on it. It is true that the mainstream people on Reddit are quite anti-religious and encourage pornography, but I don't see anything wrong with visiting subreddits that encourage good behavior. That's like saying you shouldn't use Google or any other major search enginge because it has got unbiblical content.
 

Nautilus

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Sometimes a secular source can be helpful (for example a therapist may be able to help even if they aren't professing Christ), but reddit of all places is one of the last places I'd look.

Seeing as reddit is full of people who absolutely love pornography and see nothing wrong with it, and even has a NSFW section (gotta at least say that's nice in that you at least know what to steer clear of). No idea whats on the NSFW section, not checking either, but seriously a site that has NSFW in it isn't going to be where I'm going to look for ways to stop looking at porn.

If you want to look to other CCers, this has actually been done before on this very site though. Some of us are still talking about it when the occasion comes up.
You are on the internet which doesnt even have the common courtesy to label things nsfw unlike reddit... not really sure how that argument stands up to those facts. I mean if you dont go to porn on the internet you dont have to go to porn on reddit either. I use reddit daily but my front page is only the subreddits I subscribe to like music, movies, leagueoflegends, pathfinder, gso, and a few others. Its easy to avoid porn.
 
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ServantStrike

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You are on the internet which doesnt even have the common courtesy to label things nsfw unlike reddit... not really sure how that argument stands up to those facts. I mean if you dont go to porn on the internet you dont have to go to porn on reddit either. I use reddit daily but my front page is only the subreddits I subscribe to like music, movies, leagueoflegends, pathfinder, gso, and a few others. Its easy to avoid porn.

I sometimes go on reddit too. So far I've never seen any porn.

Perhaps I didn't really make it as clear as I should have. I'm saying I wouldn't go for spiritual guidance on a site which also has porn on it, although then again, your point is valid. There a lot of people on reddit, including Christians, who do not use those sections of the site.


But said a different way, the entire no fap thing on reddit seems to be aimed just at keeping people from being pornography addicts and allowing them to enjoy better sex. Plenty of them talk about being with women (who aren't their wife) but not fapping. That's not really the message I think a Christian should be running to - it's backwards as far as which you need to stop first.
 

Nautilus

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The nofap challenge is mostly just about not masturbating. How people refocus that sexual energy though is up to them. Some people refocus on wives or girlfriends, which however wrong it might be well its a secular site, its not like things like that are a surprise though.) Some focus it on new hobbies or completing a goal. Im sure there are some there who are christian as well.
 
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I don't think you are in a good way if you look towards secular means to stop committing sin. I would say this to the man who goes to a secular therapist to stop committing adultery as well as those who go to reddit instead of Christ to stop their actions fueled by unbridled lust, greed, and lies about sexual intercourse.

Seek the kingdom first.
If it were not for Elizabeth Cady Stanton, a devout atheist, who was stoned by church members of seneca falls for her belief in women's rights, then women would not have the roles they now have in jobs, in society, and yes, even in church in many cases. We forget that every person has value, even in their brokenness and unsaved status. I believe one of the gifts God gave me was learning different languages, but I have enjoyed that since before a Christian. Does that then mean that my gift from God served no purpose because I was not saved? I wouldn't like to think so.
 
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Ecclesiastik

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If it were not for Elizabeth Cady Stanton, a devout atheist, who was stoned by church members of seneca falls for her belief in women's rights, then women would not have the roles they now have in jobs, in society, and yes, even in church in many cases. We forget that every person has value, even in their brokenness and unsaved status. I believe one of the gifts God gave me was learning different languages, but I have enjoyed that since before a Christian. Does that then mean that my gift from God served no purpose because I was not saved? I wouldn't like to think so.
I'm not sure how you are connecting your statements to mine.
 
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You said secular sources are not good for not committing sin, but Christians are just as sinful, and in some cases more sinful, than non-believers. (i.e. at least in the sense of one person being saved and still commits drug abuse, while a non-Christian seeks to address sin issues and only known issue may be anger or lust). Truth be told, many secular movements provide better support than non-Christian movements. Although, many of those secular movements draw their model from Christian movements. One example, is the truth campaign about cigarettes. We would in certain cases be better off learning from them, instead of rejecting them. It is like someone saying I do not believe in medicine, because Jesus will heal me. Well, sometimes medicine is the healing that God provides.
 
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Ecclesiastik

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Medicine doesn't cure sin and smoking is not a sin. I know you probably do not mean to do it but you are making a straw-man argument. I never said that you can never ever seek any help but religious help or that anything that doesn't have Jesus on it is evil. I said that if you look to secular means to stop committing sin then you are probably in a bad way in regard to your relationship with Christ.

If you need an STD message to stop you from being an adulterer, then that's not a good sign for your relationship with Christ.
 
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Ok, let me see if I can explain my theory. Take my example of learning Spanish, I had to tutor other students, before I was saved. They needed help with Spanish. If they had to choose an unsaved student, with an A average, or a saved student, with a C average, would they choose the C student because of his faith choice? Or the student that will help them succeed? In the same way, if you struggle with alcoholism, for example, would you go to an AA meeting that got results and helped you not to drink, or go a to a prayer meeting with believers who had similar struggles? Actually in many cases, the suggestion of former alcoholic Christians is to attend AA meetings, and when they mention praying to a faith, pray to Jesus. In essence what I'm saying is sometimes the best sources are not Christian source (although if you have the option of a faith-based support group, I would advise to always side with them, the problem is that is not always a choice). Or, as with AA or ARC, they become lax in their origins of faith and step away from the evangelical side of things and focus primarily on their service, but that doesn't mean their service is bad. I guess you could say it is what you make of it.
 
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Ecclesiastik

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Ok, let me see if I can explain my theory. Take my example of learning Spanish, I had to tutor other students, before I was saved. They needed help with Spanish. If they had to choose an unsaved student, with an A average, or a saved student, with a C average, would they choose the C student because of his faith choice? Or the student that will help them succeed? In the same way, if you struggle with alcoholism, for example, would you go to an AA meeting that got results and helped you not to drink, or go a to a prayer meeting with believers who had similar struggles? Actually in many cases, the suggestion of former alcoholic Christians is to attend AA meetings, and when they mention praying to a faith, pray to Jesus. In essence what I'm saying is sometimes the best sources are not Christian source (although if you have the option of a faith-based support group, I would advise to always side with them, the problem is that is not always a choice). Or, as with AA or ARC, they become lax in their origins of faith and step away from the evangelical side of things and focus primarily on their service, but that doesn't mean their service is bad. I guess you could say it is what you make of it.
I don't feel like you are understanding me. Read my last post and first post again please. Learning a language has nothing to do with sinning.

Christ is always the best source.