Ok, how does one end up being a homosexual?

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Gkev

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Someone please share on this, cause I really don think one can be born a homosexual. like seriously..........#JusSayin
 
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You become homosexual by engaging in a homosexual relationship. No one has been born intimate with a SS partner. People may be born with the predisposition, just as people are born predisposed to be angry or selfish. But no one is born a homosexual in the Biblical sense; neither is anyone born a thief or drunkard.
 
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You end up being a homosexual watching too much Glee..

[like seriously?]
 
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Someone please share on this, cause I really don think one can be born a homosexual. like seriously..........#JusSayin

When we take part in sin it eventually controls us if we do not repent and turn away from it.God would not create gay people then turn around and call it perversion.That is against the nature of God.Sin consumes us when we allow it to.But we can always turn from it and receive forgiveness.
 

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I was born a sinner. So in that sense a homosexual was born with the desire to commit that sin. Praise Jesus that the Holy Spirit has been working in my life to sanctify me and make my particular sinful desires lessen more and more as I conform to His will.

This is the ONLY way to defeat the sin of homosexuality or any other sin.
 
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Gkev

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That's what am talkin' about. I agree with you
 
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One likely becomes homosexual much the same way one becomes heterosexual. Scientifically, the reasons are as yet largely unknown. We know that birth order can have effects on one's chance of being homosexual. We also know that if one half of a set of twins is homosexual the other half has a far greater chance of also being homosexual. Unscientifically speaking, we listen to what people tell us. Ask a lesbian or gay person when they 'became homosexual', and they will mostly likely will give you a look of confusion, exasperation or disgust. They will perhaps respond, 'when did you choose to become heterosexual?' or 'So, you could choose to be attracted to someone of your own gender if you wanted to?'.

Even in my own limited experience, I know that I have never chosen to be attracted to specific people. There are some people I find appealing, others I don't. I can't force myself to see differently, it just is what it is. I don't know if it was nature or nuture, but either way I don't have an active choice in who I'm attracted to. It should also be noted that actions and attractions are different things. A homosexual act does not make a homosexual person. Why people choose to have sex with people they're not attracted to is often beyond me, with perhaps the only exception being when gay men or women (historically or otherwise) feel enormous societal or familial pressure to marry someone of the opposite sex.
 
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Someone please share on this, cause I really don think one can be born a homosexual. like seriously..........#JusSayin
Is possible, I saw one guy get set free and the demon said he was there since birth. One guy I spoke said his parents fornicated before marriage, so I think they opened the door.
Porn or other filthy programs is an opening for unclean demons to come in, sexual abuse is a big one and a kid watching porn is sexual abuse too. I dated one pervert. It came in when he watched porn as a kid.
 
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guys, this thread is a year old and the user only made eight posts, all on the day of joining the site
 
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guys, this thread is a year old and the user only made eight posts, all on the day of joining the site
Again, the topic is what matters rather than who originally brought it up.
 
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HisHolly

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All about the influence to be "gay" being left unchecked.. No birth order matters.. The way Satan gets people to believe he's not really in this is make things look like they can be proven by some studies.. Generation problems and can happen to anyone really.. Almost everyone on my mom's side is Gay or lesbian or bi.. I was delivered from being bi.. Started when I was young and manifested bc no one saw the influence and took authority over it....
 
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Church2u2

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Simple..when one gives in to the homosexual act..over and over again..
 
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SkepticalCynic

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I believe it is written that God is love, and God made man in his image, therefore love is an intrinsic part of us.
We were made to be vastly different, and the individual's unique experience of love is a part of what makes them distinct.

That's all you need.
 
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Someone please share on this, cause I really don think one can be born a homosexual. like seriously..........#JusSayin
Well...you see...when two guys love each other very much...they...well you see, one guy will...Utah you're gonna need to tell him cause I can't.
 

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Well...you see...when two guys love each other very much...they...well you see, one guy will...Utah you're gonna need to tell him cause I can't.
Oh good grief, Bushido. I'LL tell him..lol .. Gkev, no one is BORN homosexual. God creates each one of us, and he HATES homosexuality so he ain't gonna create any gay babies. :/ He created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. :rolleyes: Man and woman were created for sex. Not 2 men together, or 2 women together. MAN AND WOMAN. Anything different is a perversion of God's natural plan for people having sex. GOD DOES NOT CREATE GAY BABIES. A 5-month old baby boy isn't gonna look at another baby boy and be like, "dang boy, you looking fine, I'll marry you someday".. Same goes for the girls, also..
 

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Oh good grief, Bushido. I'LL tell him..lol .. Gkev, no one is BORN homosexual. God creates each one of us, and he HATES homosexuality so he ain't gonna create any gay babies. :/ He created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. :rolleyes: Man and woman were created for sex. Not 2 men together, or 2 women together. MAN AND WOMAN. Anything different is a perversion of God's natural plan for people having sex. GOD DOES NOT CREATE GAY BABIES. A 5-month old baby boy isn't gonna look at another baby boy and be like, "dang boy, you looking fine, I'll marry you someday".. Same goes for the girls, also..
omg im laughting tears at the adam and steve one!! ROFL Completely agree lol luv you sis
 

blue_ladybug

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omg im laughting tears at the adam and steve one!! ROFL Completely agree lol luv you sis

​You know me, I'm not one to delicately approach anything..lol.. He wanted to know, so I told him.. :eek: If God wanted us to be gay, he would have made Adam and Steve, or Eve and Ellen..lol
 

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​You know me, I'm not one to delicately approach anything..lol.. He wanted to know, so I told him.. :eek: If God wanted us to be gay, he would have made Adam and Steve, or Eve and Ellen..lol
lol I believe that its never of God when someone gets born disabled or anything unnatural in the first place.. I believe kids can be born with a evil spirit through a parents in some situations. But this trend of naturly born gay just makes me wanna take people and bump their heads together lol
I will never het over your post ... Adam and Steve..Eve and Ellen.. you crack me up
 
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Oh good grief, Bushido. I'LL tell him..lol .. Gkev, no one is BORN homosexual. God creates each one of us, and he HATES homosexuality so he ain't gonna create any gay babies. :/ He created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. :rolleyes: Man and woman were created for sex. Not 2 men together, or 2 women together. MAN AND WOMAN. Anything different is a perversion of God's natural plan for people having sex. GOD DOES NOT CREATE GAY BABIES. A 5-month old baby boy isn't gonna look at another baby boy and be like, "dang boy, you looking fine, I'll marry you someday".. Same goes for the girls, also..
lol. Well I'm kind of up in the air with that. I mean, God doesn't like stealing or murder, and yet kleptomaniacs and sociopaths are born everyday. Same with people who are Schizophrenic or Bipolar. I don't think God has His hand in some of these things. I think homosexuality might be the same way. I grew up with 2 male friends (brothers) who were (and still are) VERY feminine. I mean we were YOUNG (5 or 6) and they were both extremely feminine. They were always wanting to be the female power rangers or damsels in distress when we would play pretend on playgrounds. Now that we are grown up, one has come out as a homosexual and the other is still very feminine but into women.

I think homosexuality has all of the signs of mental illness or some kind of genetic disorder. The problem is that it isn't something that interferes with day-to-day life like schizophrenia or depression. It's a disorder that someone can actually identify themselves with and build pride upon, so I don't believe it gets the proper research it deserves.

I mean without a doubt committing homosexual acts is a sin. But I'm not so sure that people can "control" being gay just yet.

Who knows though.