Out in the real world

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MercyReigns

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I just graduated college this past May.

The real world is kind of scary, huh?

The thing is, I did really well in college; graduated in the top three percent of my class with a bunch of shiny things to hang around my neck. But, in the real world, I've quickly realized those shiny things don't mean much to anyone else. An even better revelation: I don't think too much of those shiny things myself.

Since I've graduated, I joined a volunteer mission organization and I've been send about 2,000 miles away from my family to work at a private, Catholic school. It's a little scary, a lot exciting and a bit confusing. My shiny things are quite comfortable in storage and I like the opportunity to let my skills shine in other ways (I am working as a teacher).

The thing is, sometimes it is hard to keep the faith alive and going. Yes, I know I work for a mission organization, in a religious based school. But sometimes the fire inside needs to be protected from a dousing of water. And, I think it is doubly hard because I am not only dealing with a new, rough environment, but I am also dealing with coming to terms with the fact that I've "grown up".

How do you keep the faith fires burning when there is so much on your adult plate? I feel as if there are some days I am struggling to stay above water, but I know somewhere along the line, it must get easier.
 
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Ugly

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Sometimes there is no magic trick to helping. We just have to own up to what we see and know. You are an adult now. You just have to accept it. Not to say you can't still do things and have fun, but the days of pushing off homework til later to go to the movies is done. Now, work comes first, supporting yourself, paying the bills, these things are what you have to deal with first. And once that stuff is all done, with the time and money left over is when you can have some fun. But that's kind of the key, you are an adult now, with adult responsibilities, but don't forget to have fun still.