[h=5]To me, it seems as though the people who are obvious with their love, are more obvious with their flaws. And those who are subtle with their love, are more subtle with their flaws. Yet, both have equal amounts of love and flaws.
My question for you: do you prefer to see someone's love/flaws right away, or later on in a friendship?[/h]I personally hide just about everything. I don't openly show affection towards people and I don't like my flaws to be out in the open, and I show them (my flaws) to the select few that I choose to be close with. I tend to like and value the friendships I have a little more with those that do the same as I do. I feel much closer to someone who shares their flaws with just me or a select few. So I would prefer to see them later on in the friendship. I also find that when I see their flaws later on I'm less likely to judge them for the things they tell me and I respond with more understanding and love because I've known this person for a while so their flaws don't matter so much.
My question for you: do you prefer to see someone's love/flaws right away, or later on in a friendship?[/h]I personally hide just about everything. I don't openly show affection towards people and I don't like my flaws to be out in the open, and I show them (my flaws) to the select few that I choose to be close with. I tend to like and value the friendships I have a little more with those that do the same as I do. I feel much closer to someone who shares their flaws with just me or a select few. So I would prefer to see them later on in the friendship. I also find that when I see their flaws later on I'm less likely to judge them for the things they tell me and I respond with more understanding and love because I've known this person for a while so their flaws don't matter so much.