i fall in love way too easily

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Liamson

Liamson

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I'm lonely simply because I don't have any offline friends here.

I'm also really extroverted so having people in my life is a pretty big part of who I am.



But I find myself more susceptible to the idea of falling in love when I have friends, energy, confidence, and everything going for me, as opposed to simply not wanting to be in a lonely circumstance.


When I'm lonely, I often think, what could someone see in me now? What do they want from me? Or I'm in no position to act on my feelings so... I might as well just let it go.
 
Ritter

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ijustwanttheTruth said:
it's definitely hormone-induced illusion.
it can be dangerous.
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I respectfully disagree. Falling in love isn't an illusion at its core.

It can and should be easy. How else would survive let alone flourish?
 
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Liamson said:
I'm lonely simply because I don't have any offline friends here.

I'm also really extroverted so having people in my life is a pretty big part of who I am.



But I find myself more susceptible to the idea of falling in love when I have friends, energy, confidence, and everything going for me, as opposed to simply not wanting to be in a lonely circumstance.


When I'm lonely, I often think, what could someone see in me now? What do they want from me? Or I'm in no position to act on my feelings so... I might as well just let it go.
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This is wise. We are more ready to fall in love when we feel complete in ourselves.
 
ijustwanttheTruth

ijustwanttheTruth

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Liamson said:
I'm lonely simply because I don't have any offline friends here.

I'm also really extroverted so having people in my life is a pretty big part of who I am.



But I find myself more susceptible to the idea of falling in love when I have friends, energy, confidence, and everything going for me, as opposed to simply not wanting to be in a lonely circumstance.


When I'm lonely, I often think, what could someone see in me now? What do they want from me? Or I'm in no position to act on my feelings so... I might as well just let it go.
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same. all my friends right now are online. so my down hours i have nothing better to do than moan about how alone i feel. haha.
yeah. having friends and a life you can be proud of is definitely a better foundation for a relationship than empty desperation.

that being said. i am not too proud to admit i am desperate
 
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SeatBelt

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...its so hard on the knees if you are Steven Tyler's age.
 
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SeatBelt

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ijustwanttheTruth said:
what is? falling in love?
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I'd post the vid for you, but Aerosmith can be a little iffy on their lyrics and video images sometimes. I'd hate to be a stumbling block for someone.
 
AzureAfire

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Wow. And i thought i was the only one XD

Honestly, most of my friends now are online. I have been under a pile of rocks for years, which didn't help my being an introvert XD So, when i finally got revived, and GOD led me to CC, this is where i've started having connections again. Although i'm loner-ish, it's not that i have a big problem or difficulty making friends. I can be extroverted with little effort. It's just that i prefer solitude, more often than not. I have friends at work, but i don't depend on them for company. I sort of feel content just being by myself for now. By GOD's grace, the attacks of loneliness have been virtually non-existent for months now. What i do wrestle with is attacks of longing. It's not a sad feeling, but something that's even more intense. I long to give and receive affection...it's crazy when it gets too much! I really pray hard not to get carried away and feel desperate XD

At present, i have crushes, fictional (Batman) and real (a Hollywood celeb, a YouTube celeb, and well, someone here at CC? XD). And they all make me squeal (loudly, or deep inside) when i see them or hear their voice :eek: i am such a kid when i have a crush! My heart races and my hands feel a little cold when i see he's online, for example XD and oh my, the smile on my face is just crazy! I will agree with you guys that it's an awesome feeling to have a crush, and more so when you're in love. The world looks different somehow...music seems sweeter to the ear, the sun shines brighter, the breeze feels more refreshing. Your day just can't go wrong. And a simple memory of a smile, a look, a word he spoke or a touch gets you sighing and smiling yourself, wherever you are or whatever you're doing. It's magical :) if i could hold onto the feeling, i'd never let it go.
 
ijustwanttheTruth

ijustwanttheTruth

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today is such a lonely day. i wanna text people i shouldnt. sigh <3
 
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SeatBelt

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Michael Keaton Batman or Adam West Batman?
:p
(j/k... i think)
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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You forget George Clooney & Val Kilmer Batman too...but I think she means Christian Bale Batman!
 
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gia

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Ugh..you guys all speak the truth...loneliness sucks :(
 
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SeatBelt

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iTOREtheSKY said:
I KNOW I'm right!...lol I so often am..just look at my track record. er..wait...scratch that! lol
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waaaaaaait, you don't run track.

you own a dragster??? :)
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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Ohhh yessssssssssss indeed.LOL Let's race. Hey..whatever happened to the man cave speaking of drag racing? lol
 
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SeatBelt

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Man cave? <looks around, notices the feminine touches...>
ooops.
Quick turn the couch cushions over, the other side only has Cheetos stains... We'll blame SisCris!
 
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Jullianna

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I very rarely meet someone who grabs my attention and monopolizes my thoughts, but it happens. :)

I handle it much like Catlynn..I rationalize. If I know the person is not a Christian or would be bad for me in some other way, I put as much distance between myself and that person as possible. It's my only hope because when I fall, I fall hard.

I know you are incredibly lonely, Keren, but you can make very serious mistakes out of loneliness. Life changing mistakes that affect you and others in ways you may not even know about. That's a lot to carry around. :( Please protect yourself. You don't need anymore hurt.

Praying..
 
AzureAfire

AzureAfire

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SeatBelt said:
Michael Keaton Batman or Adam West Batman?
:p
(j/k... i think)
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iTOREtheSKY said:
You forget George Clooney & Val Kilmer Batman too...but I think she means Christian Bale Batman!
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Nope, Gentlemen. None of the above! XD Batman, as in the Animated version :eek: (in the Animated series and in Justice League and Justice League Unlimited), voiced by Kevin Conroy

Oh, and i also have a crush on Alucard/Adrian Fahrenheit Tepes :eek: of Castlevania: Symphony of the Night, voiced by Robert Belgrade.

Hmm, but i do like Christian Bale in American Psycho :eek:

Told you i'm weird/crazy, right? ;)
 
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