Ephesians 5:22-33
The Instruction to the wife, for the wife (not the husband)
[SUP]22 [/SUP]Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. [SUP]23 [/SUP]For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. [SUP]24 [/SUP]Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
The instruction to the husband (not the wife)
[SUP]25 [/SUP]Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her [SUP]26 [/SUP]to make her holy, cleansing[SUP][a][/SUP] her by the washing with water through the word, [SUP]27 [/SUP]and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. [SUP]28 [/SUP]In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. [SUP]29 [/SUP]After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— [SUP]30 [/SUP]for we are members of his body. [SUP]31 [/SUP]“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[SUP][b][/SUP] [SUP]32 [/SUP]This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. [SUP]33 [/SUP]However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Concentrate on the command for the husband, rather than on the instruction to the wife, it is really simple. !!
If you can keep up your end and obey God then you have done right before the lord.. then see what you get in return, the instruction to the wife is not for you.. its for her.
MrM
The Instruction to the wife, for the wife (not the husband)
[SUP]22 [/SUP]Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. [SUP]23 [/SUP]For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. [SUP]24 [/SUP]Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
The instruction to the husband (not the wife)
[SUP]25 [/SUP]Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her [SUP]26 [/SUP]to make her holy, cleansing[SUP][a][/SUP] her by the washing with water through the word, [SUP]27 [/SUP]and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. [SUP]28 [/SUP]In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. [SUP]29 [/SUP]After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— [SUP]30 [/SUP]for we are members of his body. [SUP]31 [/SUP]“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[SUP][b][/SUP] [SUP]32 [/SUP]This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. [SUP]33 [/SUP]However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Concentrate on the command for the husband, rather than on the instruction to the wife, it is really simple. !!
If you can keep up your end and obey God then you have done right before the lord.. then see what you get in return, the instruction to the wife is not for you.. its for her.
MrM
If you will notice, in those verses, a husbands role includes
- being the head of the wife
- being like Christ who washed the church with the water of the word.
If the wife isn't walking right in the faith (for example, not submitting, not being respectful), then the husband's role does coming into play, since he is the head, and he may need to instruct her in God's word.
Aside from the headship role, if you see a brother in error, the Leviticus says 'rebuke your neighbor frankly so that you do not share in his sin." Paul wrote to the Romans that they were 'able also to admonish one another.' The author of Hebrew writes in chapters 2 to exhort one another daily lest any of you be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. Male or female, if your believing spouse is in some sin, shouldn't you point it out?
There is certainly no instruction to men not to tell women to submit to their husbands. The passage you quote was written by a man, telling wives to submit to their husbands.