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My husband does whatever he wants no matter how I feel about it. He works too much, he drinks too much, and he's barely ever home.... when he is home it's mostly to sleep.
When I ask him to do things with me and our kids he does but he acts uninterested and annoyed the whole time. I go to church alone with three kids every weekend. I do everything for the kids by myself with no help from him. His job is very demanding so he uses that as an excuse mostly to avoiding doing things he doesn't care about. He does however manage to make it to football at the bar with his cousin every single sunday because that's "his time" to relax.
I dont feel loved, supported, or important to him, and I've told him and he makes no attempt to change that feeling....
I have prayed that his path will come back to us. That he'll make the choice to be a better father and husband. I pray for strengthen to be the best mother I can on my own and give my kids everything they need. I pray for guidence and wisedom to know how to talk to him to get him to respond to me.
What else can I do? How can I reach him??
When I ask him to do things with me and our kids he does but he acts uninterested and annoyed the whole time. I go to church alone with three kids every weekend. I do everything for the kids by myself with no help from him. His job is very demanding so he uses that as an excuse mostly to avoiding doing things he doesn't care about. He does however manage to make it to football at the bar with his cousin every single sunday because that's "his time" to relax.
I dont feel loved, supported, or important to him, and I've told him and he makes no attempt to change that feeling....
I have prayed that his path will come back to us. That he'll make the choice to be a better father and husband. I pray for strengthen to be the best mother I can on my own and give my kids everything they need. I pray for guidence and wisedom to know how to talk to him to get him to respond to me.
What else can I do? How can I reach him??